Post # 1
Hi there, I’m just looking for some input. I’ve known my boss for a really long time, prior to me even working with her. She’s been treating me quite poorly at work as of the last few months. When I first got engaged she expressed that she wanted to come to my wedding. I don’t want her there. I’m not inviting anyone from work and neither is my fiancée. She has never even met him. Am I obligated to invite her? I am worried she will take it out on me at work for not inviting her. Suggestions?
Post # 2
You are not obligated. If she does ask just be honest, “We are only able to invite family and close friends, not work colleagues.”
Post # 3
No I don’t think you are at all!!!! Don’t do it because you feel you have to, and as PP said, if she asks it is a friends and family only affair.
Post # 4
- Wedding: May 2015 - St Peter\'s Church, East Maitland, and Bella Vista, Newcastle
Nope. If you don’t want her there, don’t invite her.
Post # 5
Nope not at all. I’ve got great workmates and a great boss but I have not told anyone that we are engaged or getting married as I don’t want to invite any of them. I will tell them after the wedding that we got married
Post # 6
i did not invite anyone work related
Post # 7
We are not inviting anyone work related. Only family and very close friends.
Post # 8
- Wedding: September 2017 - Mississauga Convention Centre
We aren’t inviting anyone from work just family and friends
Post # 9
Absolutely not! I am not inviting my boss! I am inviting 1 person from work who I am close to.
Post # 10
Nope! and since you aren’t inviting other work people, that makes it really easy to honestly just say, “sorry, it’s smaller and we are only having family and a couple close friends”