(Closed) Obligatory shower invite.

posted 7 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
46667 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

You always have the option to graciously decline, if and when you receive an invitation.

Post # 4
7173 posts
Busy Beekeeper

AHHH!   I’m screaming FOR YOU.

I know you want to be there for Future Mother-In-Law, but she doesn’t HAVE to go – she’s just getting coerced by her mother and wants company in her misery.  


Post # 6
907 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

It’s kinda awkward, I agree. Bottom line, maybe FCIL was planning on inviting you even BEFORE grandma opened her big mouth. Though it might seem like it’s obligatory invite, there’s a chance it isn’t. 

I would go with a smile, even if you’re not thrilled about it. Bring a small gift you can afford.

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