(Closed) OCTOBER 2014 BRIDES!

posted 5 years ago in October 2014
Post # 2
1671 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2014 - Church


I have to go to an appointment with the florist tonight to finalize the details. We need to choose our songs for first dance and mother-son/father-daughter dances. I just have to find out three more peoples meals by tomorrow. Fiance needs to figure out where he is going to get ready. Finalize the numbers for who is getting makeup done. Fiance needs to pick up his suit a few days before. Otherwise … Just payments and everything is all set to go.

We bought these beautiful peacock thank you notes by Punch Studio. The envelopes are gorgeous too!

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Post # 3
322 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2014 - Restaurant
  • Get our marriage license
  • Follow up on those last pesky RSVPs
  • Pay everyone 🙂
  • Make our favors (we are doing a homemade pecan bar)
  • Final fittings for dress
  • Break in my wedding shoes
  • Whiten my teeth

We got our thank you cards from Target.

Post # 4
4893 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

So many things!! *lol* Some from the top of my head:

  • Finish making flowers (bouquets, bouts and corsages) – this weekend
  • Write on chalk signs (guestbook and one for the RBs) – this weekend
  • Final fitting for dress – Monday, but may do one other fitting in October
  • Hair Trial – calling next week
  • Narrow down music for social hour/reception, as well as work on lists for band breaks and all wedding party dances – this weekend
  • Get Fiance to book rental car for day of
  • Order MOG present – next week
  • Order bracelet to complete my look (already have earrings) – next week
  • Make escort cards once all RSVPs are back (due next Friday, still have a TON of them not received… seriously people!!)
  • Work on wedding day timeline, and even week timeframe for wedding party
  • Get marriage license
  • Get Fiance to want to meet with either AAA or a travel agent to look at honeymoon destinations
  • Organize who is paying for what, and get envelopes made for each vendor
  • Meet with Photographer to talk about “must have pics”
  • Meet with bakery to give flavor ideas, and style of sheet and tier cake
  • Figure out who can decorate my reception venue since we can’t get in the place the night before like I had planned… gggrrrr.
  • … and so much more!

I got my thank you cards from Michaels, and used a 40% off coupon. They’re jusy cardboard with a handwritten Thank You on them.

Post # 5
8576 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2014

I have alot left to do, but most of it is little things that can be knocked off fairly quickly. I do feel a little behind the other October bees at this point, BUT my wedding is the last day of the month, so maybe I’m not too far behind.


after rsvps come in [due sept 30th] :

– finalize dinner menu / order food for cocktail hour

– create escort cards, finish place cards


other things that need done :

– alterations appointment for my dress on the 23rd

– bridal shower on the 24th

– order the rest of the tablecloths, ect [need 1 table skirt for cake table, 1 table cover for guest book table, 1 square tablecloth for outdoor cigar smoking area, tablecloth clips].

– fiance needs to get his tux altered a little bit

– finishing purchasing beer/wine

– get bales of hay [these are actually being picked up sometime this week]

– finish getting gifts for bridal party & parents [most of this is done, just have a few more to go]

– get tip envelopes together

– purchase batteries

– pick up a few more liquor bottles

– purchase wine coolers & the like

– purchase 100 more instant fuji film for photo booth

– pay off rest of photographer [$300 left]

– order food for welcome party [probably just pizza hut]

– order food & purchase drinks for the morning of, we will do a subway platter and coffee/tea/water

– order wine corks to hold place cards

– reception dinner menu [just need to fix a few small things, and print]


“cover my ass” backup plans :


– burn prelude & ceremony music to cd

– create a dinner music stream

– create a reception music stream

– purchase umbrellas


DIY projects to finish up :

– escort cards / seating cards

– pearl shoes strass

– first anniversary pinata

– programs [1st template is done, just gotta fix some small things, and print]

– a few more cutesy signs for the candy buffet / cigar bar / flip flop basket / ect


the month/weeks leading up to the wedding :

– pick up misc. items for bar [lemons, limes, orange slices, juice, ect]

– pick up all drinks for cocktail hour [we are probably going to go with glass bottled soda & water]

– pick up drinks for dinner [sweet tea, lemon sweet tea, lemonade, coffee, water, pop, ect]

– marshmallows for the firepit

– salt & pepper for shakers

– cheeses, toppings, lettuce ect. for salad bar

– cupcakes, brownies, ect for candy/dessert buffet

– chocolate & dippables for chocolate fountain

– punch for punch fountains

– marriage license

– order or make food for cocktail hour [we were planning to DIY, but we may just order it if the budget allows]. our menu will consist of : Angel Strawberry Kabobs, Broccoli, Carrots, Celery & Dip, Finger Sandwiches, Mini 7 Layer Dips, & Caramel Grape Bites

– pack for honeymoon

– book the rest of the honeymoon [just 2 more nights left to book]

– purchase nachos for late night snack

– hair/makeup trial

– beauty maintenance [tanning, hair coloring/treatment, ect]


things we need to do/purchase the day before/of :

– put together corsages

– write love letters for love letter ceremony

– ice

– firewood


other things that we MAY get around to [if budget allows] :

– order giant jenga

– order cocktail hour food [instead of DIY]

– lighted bar shelf

– possibly add some liquor-filled chocolate bottles to our candy buffet

Post # 6
211 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

Somehow I am already at 19 days out!! Still have plenty to do though!

– Apply for marriage license

– Finalize & wrap up all attendant gifts. Attempted to put on my “thank you” wine bottle labels today and it ended up being diasterous so I am coming back to finish this task up the weekend before the wedding.

– Circulate my day of schedule and rehersal dinner info to bridal party (waiting till less then 2-week mark so people don’t lose the info)

– Finalize song choices with DJ

– Confirm with all vendors, make final payments

– Organize and box up all decor to bring to venue on rehersal day

Also waiting for the jewelry store to call and tell me FI’s ring is ready to be picked up! Time is flying… bachelorette party this coming Saturday as well as my hair trial!

Post # 7
4893 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

My weekend was somewhat productive, but I guess I did cross some stuff off from what I listed above.

I got the following done or almost done:

  • Finish making flowers (bouquets, bouts and corsages) – got all bouts done, as well as Bridesmaid or Best Man bouquets. I still have to wrap mine, and finish female bouts
  • Write on chalk signs (guestbook and one for the RBs)
  • Final fitting for dress – today! I’m sure I’ll meet with the gal again next month too.
  • Order MOG present
  • Order bracelet to complete my look (already have earrings)

<div style=”overflow: hidden; color: #000000; background-color: #ffffff; text-align: left; text-decoration: none;”>So, not a bad weekend – and it’s always nice to have things done. My mom and I plan on working on flowers again Sunday… so hopefully we can get them done then.</div>
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<div style=”overflow: hidden; color: #000000; background-color: #ffffff; text-align: left; text-decoration: none;”>I also need to email our photgrapher this week to set up a meeting. She’s from out of town, but has in town sessions the next few weekends, so that should be easy to find a time – hopefully.</div>
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<div style=”overflow: hidden; color: #000000; background-color: #ffffff; text-align: left; text-decoration: none;”>And, I need decide when I bring my ring in to get soldered to my wedding bands. It takes 2 weeks to get back – so I’m thinking by next Friday so it’s back within a week of the wedding. Otherwise, I may panic. *lol*</div>

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Post # 8
4893 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

Sorry about the weird stuff… I tried to edit it, but it stayed. 🙁

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