October Brides – 4 months to go

posted 3 months ago in October 2017
Post # 2
281 posts
Helper bee

We are having a very small wedding, at an all inclusive venue,  so my post might not be the best indicator of readiness.

Venue is secured and paid for in full, reception venue is booked and down payment has been placed. Hair and makeup is appointment is reserved. I have my entire wedding day outfit but dear fiance…nothing yet, including the ring!

We bought our flights from Germany but still need to buy our domestic flights to Tennessee, as well as book hotels and rental cars. 

We will be on a family vacation to Disney World and have placed down payments on hotels and food plans but need to pay in full in October. 

Post # 3
939 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2017

dreamreve1 :  October bee here! Time is really flying fast!! I have quite a bit of DIY projects that need to be competed for the reception but everything is moving along well. We’ve already created the guest list, secured all vendors, paid for everything (in cash – hallelujah), planned our honeymoon and purchased all decor. What’s left on my to do list:

Create invitations

Launch wedding website

Create programs

Finalize menu

101 different DIY projects lol

It’s going to be awesome! Xoxo

Post # 4
2 posts

Hi there! 

We had planned to get married in December but moved the wedding to October 15th. I’ve got the dress, I’ve got the church ready, I’ve prepaid for flowers, honeymoon is paid for, and deposit on reception venue. I even gave the groom a gift card for his tux. I’m getting so nervous about “the walk” because I tend to get dizzy when standing for too long (Orthostatic hypotension issue) Soooo we are thinking of sitting down for the vows haha

Post # 7
289 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2017

Eee I’m so excited! We’re getting married Oct. 21. We’ve had all of the major things booked and done for a while, but now it’s time to work on all of the details, like finalizing the invitations, putting together seating charts, final fittings for the dress and tuxedos, hair and makeup trials, etc.

Post # 8
917 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2017

We had a 2 1/2 year engagement so saying that I am SO excited is the understatement of the year!  We’re getting married in Mexico so we have a lot less to do than some people.  

I’m dropping off my dress tonight to be bustled, bridesmaids gifts are done.  We just have to find pants for FI and the groomsmen!  Basically aside from pants and a couple odds and ends, we need to pack our bags and go! laughing

Post # 9
25 posts
  • Wedding: October 2017

October 14th bride here!! We have all the main things done and booked but need to finalise final details eg menu, seating charts, formal invites, dress fittings still to go to (groom has no suit yet though which is making me anxious) and need to finalise first dance song together with wedding cake flavours. What are you bees dancing to? 

Post # 10
97 posts
Worker bee

Late October bride here! We have:

  • Ceremony & reception venues booked and paid for
  • Save the dates sent
  • Hotel for getting ready/wedding night booked
  • Dress bought and seamstress found (haven’t started alterations – I purchased a sample)
  • My ring bought
  • Invitations ordered
  • Wedding website/RSVP site done
  • Registry done
  • Friend agreed to officiate
  • Vows written
  • Some small decor like cake topper ordered

Next up:

  • Booking photographer (we’re talking to one we love on Friday)
  • FI’s wedding outfit
  • Rest of my outfit (shoes, veil)
  • Catering and booze (our venue is BYO) – eep
  • Cake and desserts
  • Marriage license
  • Rest of decor/flowers (we’re DIYing a lot)
  • Rentals, e.g. tables, chairs, tents (the venue has some – these are just supplementary)
  • Sending invites
  • Booking honeymoon (will just be a long weekend for now)
  • Figuring out music for both ceremony/reception

Our wedding is pretty casual so no menus, programs, seating charts needed but I still have a ton of minutiae like a guestbook, transportation to and from venue, hair and makeup, etc. left to do. embarassed

We’re having a 100ish guest wedding in a VHCOL area as well and trying to keep it under $12k (much easier as we’re having an extremely low-key event but still a challenge)!

Post # 11
21 posts

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<div>October 10th bride here. .. getting so excited !! We got engaged almost 2 years ago (2 years and 1 month by the the wedding happens!) so I cannot wait for the day to come. </div>

We have the major things booked for our safari legal wedding elopement

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<div>1- International flights & connections</div>
<div>To do: contact our local driver</div>
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<div>2- Accommodation for our wedding (4 nights) and our mini-moon (3 nights) + 2 nights layover in the capital </div>
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<div>3- Date & time booked with the registrar</div>
<div>To do: attend prenup appointment/draft it and send all needed paperwork to the embassy + go to pre-wedding counselling</div>
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<div>4- Photographer & videographer for 2 days including their travel expenses</div>
<div>To do: engagement shoot + bridal / boudoir portraits</div>
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<div>5- Florist found, brief & concept agreed and invoice issued.</div>
<div>To do: send payment + have the mock up to do all the adjustements + figure out the logistics of getting everything to our wedding venue..</div>
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<div>6- Decor all bought: ring bag, cake stand, cake topper, cake server set and hangers</div>
<div>To do: stationery/calligraphy  (only halfway through)</div>
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<div>7. Rentals company found</div>
<div>To do: agree on mock and book</div>
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<div>7- Attire: fiancé has 2 suits and I have 3 dresses. One is being altered, the other one will be shipped tomorrow and the other one is supposed to arrive before the end of July. I have most of my shoes</div>
<div>To do: buy last pair of shoes + 1 back up</div>
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<div>8. Jewellery: we know what we want… we just don’t have it yet</div>
<div>To do: chase the jeweller to get my wedding ring invoice & find earrings</div>
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<div>It has been a long time coming, very excited to start this journey 🙂 Hope you are all enjoying the process!</div>

Post # 12
33 posts
  • Wedding: October 2017

October 7th here and I THINK I have most things done.

-venue for rehearsal dinner and wedding/reception booked

-menus, cake, and signature cocktail – done

-my dress and accessories – done

-bridesmaids – dresses/shoes – done – still deciding their jewelry and gifts :-/

-decor has been purchased – some DIY aspects need to be completed closer to the wedding

-save the dates sent/invitations purchased

-dj/photographer/photobooth/hairstylist -booked – on my third make up trial

-transportation for guests – Lyft – done

-hotel booked

We still need the groom and groomsmen attire, dress fitting, wedding bands, and to decide on flowers. Oh and decide on our honeymoon destination.


Overall I’m close, my day to day planning has calmed down and I just stare at my spreadsheet like what am I missing…



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