(Closed) October brides – RSVP Counts!

posted 8 years ago in October 2011
Post # 47
Member
35 posts
Newbee
  • Wedding: October 2011

I JUST mailed mine last week, but I’ve only gotten 7 back so far and I know some in-town people got them the next day. Now I’m just paranoid people won’t take it out of it’s little pocket to realize it needs to be mailed back (even though it says “rsvp” on it). I want to get home and check the mail NOW! hah!

Wedding Date: October 8, 2011

Date mailed: August 8th

RSVP date: September 8th  (wow, I just noticed the “8th” theme going on…)

# Invites mailed: 138

# RSVPs ‘Attending’: 6

# RSVPs ‘Not Attending’: 1

# RSVPs missing: 131 (the waiting is going kill me!)

Post # 48
Member
97 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

Wedding Date:  October 1

Mailed: August 1

Response Date: Sept 10

Invites Sent: 109

People Invited: 243

RSVP’s Received: 42

Attending: 74

Not Attending: 14

Invites Missing: 67

Post # 49
Member
224 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

I mailed mine before August 1st with a RSVP by date of September 10.  I mailed around 90 invites and have probably received a third of the respones.  I haven’t had time to sit and count them out to see what actual numbers are as I have been swamped at work and we spent this last weekend at our Engaged Encounter, so nothing got done.  I would estimate we have about 15 or so no’s so far out of 200 people.  

Post # 50
Member
7 posts
Newbee
  • Wedding: October 2011

Wedding date: 10/15

 

Mailed invites: 7/15

 

RSVP date: 9/15

 

Invites sent: 81 (156 people)

Gotten responses for 72 people

Still need to hear from 84

 

Post # 51
Member
835 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

Wedding Date: October 22, 2011

Date mailed: August 9, 2011

RSVP date: September 21, 2011

# Invites mailed: 78- we plan and hope for 115 people

# RSVPs Attending: 11 (22 guests in all)

# RSVPs Not Attending: 0

# RSVPs missing: 70

Getting Rsvps in the mail is SOOOO exciting!!!

Post # 52
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135 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

Wedding Date: October 29, 2011

Date mailed: August 16, 2011(today)

RSVP date: September 30, 2011

# Invites mailed: 35 (57)

# RSVPs Attending: 0

# RSVPs Not Attending: 0

# RSVPs missing: 0

Do you think it was a bit late that i only sent out invites today? i know its a small wedding but with my partners work (navy) its been hard to get him to confirm anything while he goes out on patrols.

Post # 53
Member
316 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

Wedding Date: October 1, 2011

Date Mailed: August 1, 2011

RSVP Date: September 1, 2011

#Invites Mailed: 60 (for 103 people)

#RSVP’s Attending: 36

#RSVP’s Not Attending: 2

#RSVP’s Missing: 33 (around 66ish) people.

 

Starting to get a bit concerned, but we’ll see.

Post # 54
Member
93 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

Wedding Date: October 1, 2011

Date mailed: August 1, 2011

RSVP date: August 20, 2011

# Invites mailed: 145 (251 adults and 23 kids)

# RSVPs Attending: 38 (64 adults, 1 kid – although several others have verbally committed/made hotel reservations, including wedding party, but if we haven’t gotten the card back I’m not counting it here)

# RSVPs Not Attending: 9 (18 adults, 4 kids)

# RSVPs missing: 98 (yikes!)

Post # 55
Member
654 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

AHHHHHHH!  I just sent out my 129 (246 people) invites today!!!!!  So excited to start getting them back.  My rsvp date is 9/30.  I”m lucky in that I don’t need to give my final number until 3 days before the event.  That leaves me 3 weeks to chase down the stragglers.

Post # 56
Member
753 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

Update!!

Wedding Date: October 8, 2011

Date mailed: August 6, 2011

RSVP date: September 8, 2011

# Invites mailed: 117 (219 People)

# RSVPs Attending: 71 people

# RSVPs Not Attending: 13 People

# RSVPs missing: 135 people

Post # 57
Member
834 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

@STBSchmidt: I sent mine out on August 1st, the reply by date is September 1st. This gives the out of town folks enough time to get things settled. Then I can start the harrassment phonecalls lol.

I sent out 58 invitations.

21 have been returned so far, with 19 yes’s, and 2 no’s.

I actually recieved my first RSVP back only three days after mailing them out lol.

Post # 58
Member
480 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

Update:

Wedding Date: October 9th

Date mailed: July 18th I think

RSVP date: September 9th

# Invites mailed: 85 (159 people)

# RSVPs Attending: 95 people

# RSVPs Not Attending: 2

# RSVPs missing: 62 people

It’s getting closer. FI’s side is slacking!!

Post # 59
Member
1613 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

Date mailed: July 30th

RSVP date: September 10

# invitations mailed: 140ish (almost 300 people total)

RSVPs attending: 65ish

RSVPs not attending: 10ish

RSVPs missing: 100ish

I get sad when a day goes by and I get 0!!  We got like 12 in the mail a couple days after they were sent out, but the rest come in by 1 or 2…

Post # 60
Member
124 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

Wedding Date: October 22nd

Date mailed: August 8th

RSVP Date: October 1st

Invites sent: 86

Total # of People Invited: 165

Replied Yes: 2

Replied No: 3

Waiting on: 160

Post # 61
Member
714 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

Date mailed: 8/4/11

RSVP Date: September 2

# of people invited: 206

# of Yes: 43

# of No: 2

 

I am freaking out! LOL In a good way, I guess 🙂 I get about 3-5 RSVPs each day 🙂

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