(Closed) October brides – RSVP Counts!

posted 8 years ago in October 2011
Post # 77
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405 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

Here’s how it’s coming for me! I get two or three RSVPs in the mail every day.

Wedding Date: October 22, 2011

Date mailed: Aug. 16

RSVP date: Oct. 1

# Invites mailed: 58 invites / 123 guests

# RSVPs ‘Attending’: 35

# RSVPs ‘Not Attending’: 2

# RSVPs missing: 86 guests 

Post # 78
Member
316 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

Update:

Wedding Date: October 1, 2011

Date Mailed: August 1, 2011

RSVP Date: September 1, 2011

#Invites Mailed: 73 (for 118 people)

#RSVP’s Attending: 53

#RSVP’s Not Attending: 5

#RSVP’s Missing: 65 people.

 

People only have a week left and we’re missing half our RSVP’s! /panic

Post # 79
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1090 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

UPDATE:

Wedding Date: October 22, 2011

Date Mailed: August 1, 2011

RSVP Date: September 17, 2011

#Invites Mailed: 76 (for 166 people)

#PEOPLE Attending: 61

#PEOPLE Not Attending: 6

#RSVP’s Missing: 99 people.

Post # 80
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480 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

Update!

Wedding Date: October 9th

Date mailed: July 18th I think

RSVP date: September 9th

# Invites mailed: 87 (161 people)

# RSVPs Attending: 112 people

# RSVPs Not Attending: 4

# RSVPs missing: 43 people

I’m starting to get on people now. They tell me they are coming but I need them to send in the RSVP!!!

Post # 81
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40 posts
Newbee
  • Wedding: October 2011

Yay for RSVPs!! 

Wedding Date: October 7

Date mailed: August 19

RSVP date: September 8

# Invites mailed: 60 (113 people)

# RSVPs Attending: 12 (26 people)

# RSVPs Not Attending: 0

# RSVPs missing: 48 (87 people)

Post # 82
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929 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

Wedding Date- October 1st!

#of invites sent- 180

#yes- 94

#no- 35

# no response yet- 52 (includes some of our wedding party- LAZY!!).

 

Post # 83
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1326 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2011 - Tre Bella, Mesa, AZ

@littlecat: Seriously! Only 1 person in our wedding party has RSVPed so far!!! Arg.

Post # 84
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231 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

My guests were not good at RSVPing. 🙁

I broke mine up to two major groups: Out of towners and family were due 2 months before. Local friends and coworkers are due 1 month before. I knew a lot of out of towners would not be able to come, so I wanted the flexibility of adding more fun people from work. If a lot of out of towners RSVPed back YES, then I was just going to have another small casual gathering for corworkers.

Wedding Date: Oct 21st

Save the dates were sent out in early March to Out of Towners.

Out of town / family invites were sent early-mid July.

Out of town / family RSVPs were due August 21st (2 months before the big day): 2 weeks before the big RSVP deadline more than 50% of them were still MIA. I asked the parents to ‘kindly remind’ their respective invitees to remember to get those cards back in the mail. Some trickeled in. The day they were due, I emailed each of the missing ones. I usually got a prompt response. I didn’t get a lot of the RSVP cards back, but at least I had a response! There were just TOO many missing ones to call them all.

Tally: Inviited 110 so far. 50% said no. 50% said yes. (A lot of Out of Towners!)

The locals’ invites will sent out Sept 1st with an RSVP date of Sept 21st. I’m inviiting another 40 people. (20 guests with their plus 1s)

Post # 85
Member
714 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

Updated RSVP totals for my October 8th wedding;

Due date: September 2

People Invited: 230

Yes: 137

No: 32

Missing RSVPs: 93 people

Only 6 more days for RSVPs…..C’mon people, respond already LOL

Post # 86
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3621 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

@bellagio: Tell me about it, I have a feeling they think “well obviously I’m gonna be there”. Which doesn’t help us brides at all!

Sent: 66 invites (119 people)

Due Date: sept 5

Accepted: 36 people

Declined: 1 person

MIA: 82 people

7-ish more days till RSVP deadline. This week better be plentiful.

Post # 87
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593 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

Weekly Update

Mailed: August 1

Response Date: Sept 3

Invites Sent: 124

People Invited: 244

RSVP’s Received: 88

Attending: 135

Not Attending: 36

Chicken: 44

Beef: 81

Veggie: 2

People have until Saturday to respond but I have started bugging people already! 🙂

Post # 88
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11 posts
Newbee
  • Wedding: October 2011

Wedding date: October 7

STD mailed: June 2011

Invitations mailed: August 8th

RSVP date: Sept. 9

Invites sent: 94

Total People Invited: 183  (our goal is to have 150 only). 

Yes:54

No: 4

MIA: 125

My own bridal party has not RSVP’d yet.

I’m so frustrated. There are a couple of people that we invited assuming they will not come, but they haven’t replied yet.  I have a B list waiting, but I can’t send anything out until people reply no. 

Post # 89
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1636 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

Wedding Date: October 1, 2011

Date mailed: July 15th

RSVP date: August 31st

# Invites mailed: About 80 (about 155 people) –

# RSVPs Attending: 112

# RSVPs Not Attending: 8

# RSVPs missing: about 24 ( 42 people)

Post # 91
Member
7310 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2011 - Bed & Breakfast

UPDATE

Wedding date: October 9

Date mailed: August 6

RSVP date: September 17

# invitations mailed: 19 (34 people)

RSVPs attending:  14 (29 people)

RSVPs not attending: 0

RSVPs missing: 5…. my parents, my grandfather, my bff, and 2 of Mr. LK’s friends. I would really like for these stragglers to get on it. GAH!

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