(Closed) Off Topic: My dad’s fiancee

posted 7 years ago in Emotional
Post # 4
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

Oh people like that are really frustrating. Just go, and celebrate and don’t let antics get to you. She should understand you are a young, busy person, and she should have extended the invite out to you. But, she didn’t, and then she tried to turn it on you, to make herself look like a good person. Whatever you do, don’t ever stoop to her level, you’re better than that.

I’m also really sorry about your brother and grandfather, best wishes in that regard.

Post # 7
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

Yeah that would be frustrating. Your dad probably doesn’t even notice, men overlook things like that. You could privately tell him how you feel, just so he knows, and he can try to make you and your fiance feel more included, without ever telling your dad’s fiance. As for the other daughter, it isn’t her fault her mom’s a bit rude, and getting pregnant is a beautiful thing, not a WTF thing. I got pregnant after being with my fiance (boyfriend then) for about 8 months, 5 of which were serious, and we are happy as can be! 🙂

Try not to stress out about it.

I actually looked over that particular email, and it doesn’t seem really rude to me, but since you ahve been feeling left out, excluded for a while, that is probably why you are reacting this way. Take a deep breath, and relax.

Post # 8
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3041 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2010

To me it just sounds like it was more of a last minute thing… maybe she asked your sister to let you know about it? Or maybe she doesn’t see you much & just forgot. Idk how close you guys are? Or you could always do something else for your dad, like take him out to lunch or dinner or something instead. Maybe she was waiting for you to make plans & didn’t want to cut-in or she was waiting for you to contact her. Its not like you already made plans so it doesn’t sound like she was trying to steal him from you. If she didn’t want you to come, she probably would’ve invited you day-of or something. I’m sorry you feel hurt by it :(.

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