(Closed) Officially 30…

posted 5 years ago in 30 Something
Post # 3
1877 posts
Buzzing bee

@luverly7:  It wasn’t hard at all!  30 was a blessed and amazing year, and then 31 was even better!  I think it depends on your life, and how much you have accomplished and what you have to look forward to.  My career is amazing, and I am blessed to be doing what I love and making amazing money.  God has been so ridiculously good to me! When I welcomed 30, I was  happy with my profesional and family life, and also dating the kind of man I had always prayed to meet and marry.  I felt blessed to have the job, man, resources and life I had always wanted.  I can afford a lifestyle now that I couldn’t have in my 20’s. I remember saying to my boyfriend, now fiance, on my birthday that I felt overwhelmingly blessed and thrilled, because I knew my 30’s would be the best decade of my life so far!  This is the decade in which I will marry my dream man, have children, and chase a thousand new dreams.

Cheer up and start counting your blessings- I bet you have a LOT to be excited about and feel blessed for too! 30 is amazing, so don’t listen to anyone who tells you otherwise!


Post # 4
1896 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2014

@luverly7:  Welcome!  I was so happy to turn 30, trust me it only gets better!

Post # 5
31 posts
  • Wedding: July 2014

going to be 30 next month, and planning something fun with my Fiance, lets wait and see how i feel being 30 by then, sure it will be good! 30 and fabulousKiss

Post # 6
2037 posts
Buzzing bee

@luverly7:  I could be alone on this, as I found when I posted about being 30 and waiting on the waiting forums here.  But, turning 30 was hard for me.  I just sort of always thought I’d be married with kids by 30.  Then I had hoped to be married by 30…..and then I hoped to at LEAST be engaged by 30.  I was very depressed about it- my BF’s SIL got married 3 months ago and had to keep letting everyone know that she got married 2 days before her big 30, and how lucky that she was to really be getting married before 30.


It really depressed me and made me start to dislike her a bit-and my Boyfriend or Best Friend, enough to just want out and to start over.


I have turned a corner and I’m better dealing with it now and focusing on the positive…but it WAS hard for me.  I don’t look old as I get carded ALL the time, and I’m in great shape and don’t feel old…but I was let down by some stupid expectation that I got in my head so it made 30 very rough.  












Post # 7
110 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

Life only gets better and better.  No issues here with turning 30.


My 20’s were fun but sometimes stressful.  The 20’s are about going to school, establishing your career, travelling and finding out who you are.  I worked very hard in my 20’s to earn an income and dated many Mr. Wrong until my Mr. Right came along when I was 28. 




I am almost 33 and since turning 30 I have paid off most of my student loan debt, gotten  engaged and bought a house – life is good in your 30’s.  Smile




Post # 8
2188 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: March 2024

I turned 30 early in the summer and it hit me hard.

All of a sudden I’m checking a new box when I fill out forms (so long 25-29 box), saying I’m 30 when someone asks etc.

It’s still weird.

That being sad, I’m happier at 30 than I was at 25, I met the man of my dreams and hope to spend the rest of my life with him.

Your 30s are all about what you make of them!

Post # 9
2903 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: January 2011

I turned 30 this year too…I cried for like 2 weeks..lol. But…my 20’s sucked but so far 30 has been pretty awesome!

Post # 10
2117 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2014 - Baby #2 due Sep 2017

I’m not 30 yet but I’m not afraid if turning 30. I welcome that decade of (hopefully) stability and knowing what I’m doing with my life!

My late teens/early 20s were the worst for money,Mr Wrongs, finding my path, ugh I never want to go back! So things should just keep getting better and better I say!

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