(Closed) Officially Getting Married this Saturday-Not Excited?

posted 7 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 2011

I think you’re totally normal. There’s been alot going on and you’ve had to focus on other things.

I’m sure when the moment comes it will hit you!

Post # 4
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

I am so sorry to hear that! I think it is pretty normal – we’re still awhile out, but I honestly feel so bad when people ask me if I’m excited because some times I am just not. I think when you think about the fact that you’re going to be married for so long, sometimes for me it already feels like I am. So nothing would change.

I have a friend who about a month out from her wedding discovered that she didn’t even find her Fiance attractive anymore. I think it was just stress because she went through with it and feels so in love right now.

Post # 5
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5095 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

Under the circumstances, what you are feeling is TOTALLY normal.  As happy as you are to be marrying your fiance, it also drives home that it’s not the way it was originally planned.  As long as you can hold yourself open to the experience, you might find that it’s more special than you imagined.  But don’t force it – you are where you are.  That’s ok.

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