(Closed) Officially Planning a wedding! (or delegating to others to plan =0p)

posted 8 years ago in Waiting
  • poll: Would you delegate planning to your mom/s?

    yes, moms are the bestest!

    We are doing it together


    Not planning yet and haven't thought about it

  • Post # 18
    3172 posts
    Sugar bee

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    @subtlebee:  That’s exactly how I see it. A party with a wedding ceremony beforehand. We are also taking all our pictures together before the ceremony (I mean come on, I am going to look my very best then) and she didn’t like that but we explained it as we wanted to enjoy our cocktail hour with our guest instead of taking pictures. Okay, honestly, it’s because I wanted to enjoy eating and drinking during cocktail hour but that first excuse is simply so much nicer.

    Post # 20
    1103 posts
    Bumble bee

    I actually haven’t thought about it, yet.  I have sent my mom pictures of dresses and such and I sent ring pics to my sister but it’s mainly to get their opinions because I don’t live near either of them and they are huge inspirations for me. But I suppose I might ask my mom to help? I’m not really sure, though, I never thought about it.

    Post # 21
    1000 posts
    Bumble bee

    Oh, HECK no!  SO and I are both atheists, his entire family is highly conservative and very religious, and my family is also religious even if they are quite liberal.   We want religion and faith to have nothing to do with our marriage, and that means keeping the participation of our family members in the planning process to a minimum. 

    Post # 22
    603 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: November 2013

    Congrats! Now you will have happy memories of March instead of sad ones. Yay!

    Post # 23
    2875 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: May 2013

    @subtlebee:  Congrats! I wouldn’t let my mom actually plan the wedding but sometimes when she is driving me absolutely crazy and nagging, i turn that aspect over to her if I don’t really care about it.

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