- 8 years ago
- Wedding: June 2010
I’m debating what to do for a gift for our officiant. He’s my cousin, and told us at our first meeting that he doesn’t charge for a wedding (we’re actually only his third one), and won’t take it if we (or my mom – his aunt) try to pay him. So we’re planning on making a donation to his church, but I still want to get him a gift.
Would it be okay to get him the same gift as our groomsmen/ushers? He’s about the same age as us and our wedding party, and we would have likely asked him to be an usher if he didn’t happen to be a minister 🙂