(Closed) Oh bees….

posted 6 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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662 posts
Busy bee

It sounds like his rejection of your proposal hit you hard and that is completely understandable.  A year of that strife has to be hard for anyone to handle.  It’s great that he’s finally on the same page though.  Does he know how his rejection hurt you?  I mean… have you let him know what this past year has been like for you?

 

I’m so sorry you’re going through this and I’m sorry that I don’t have any advice on how to get the magic back

Post # 4
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481 posts
Helper bee

Blarrrgghhh ~ toxic situation! That is a huge bummer and I can only imagine how you feel. 

My best suggestion is that you guys should get some counselling. It might help (a lot) to talk about how you’re feeling out loud, in front of a third party. 

Post # 5
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1583 posts
Bumble bee

@Saeranne:  Try thinking of it as a rejection of your methods and not of you. If he wants to marry you now and you still want to marry him just use this as a story to tell your kids. Keep the goal of being with him in mind and use the path to strengthen you not tear you apart.

Post # 7
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39 posts
Newbee

@Saeranne That’s great news! I’m hoping to get some small hints like that from my Boyfriend or Best Friend soon. It seems the hardest when in the past they have talked about wanting to marry you and knowing you are the right person for them but then they still don’t propose. I wish you all the best!

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