(Closed) Oh Em Gee I think I am on the verge of a nervous breakdown.

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
  • poll: Have you ever had "cold feet?"
    Yes : (15 votes)
    54 %
    No : (13 votes)
    46 %
  • Post # 3
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    1638 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: September 2011

    @Legallyblondiebride: BIG HUG

    Hun we’ve all been through it! I had a freak out moment like that and now that I’m married I feel like an idiot for wondering about why I would miss my single life. I LOVE BEING MARRIED and so will you!

    I remember some of your posts. You are dealing with A LOT from bitchy ex friends and your Future Sister-In-Law.

    Take a break from wedding planning for a week. Go to the spa, go shopping, have a nice dinner date with your Fiance to remember why you love him. Go out with friends who support you. Keep your mind off those who do not like you for whatever reason.

    Setbacks happen. The week if my wedding our baker bailed and I had to rush to Walmart toget a wedding cake and pay for it using the money I was going to pay my car insurance for!! The cake was delish and my insurance was late but didnt’ cancel.

    The flowers I wanted from Michaels I didn’t get in time because they were spring flwoers and I had NO money so I had to use a different flower but it all worked out

    My groomsmen was having financial problems and didn’t get his tux until the FINAL DAY before he could not be in the wedding.

    Things work out!!

    Post # 6
    Member
    907 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: October 2012

    I think its normal. Planning can be so stressful and some days it feels like too much and u need someone to blame and u don’t want to do it. But all the questions u are asking ure self don’t have muxh to do with ure Fiance. I think iits normal bc the finality of it all. I’ve had those days before and u get over them promise.

    Post # 7
    Member
    2100 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: April 2012

    I think it is a good sign that you are having cold feet.  This is the biggest commitment of your life that you are making and if you did not wonder and doubt some then you are probably not taking it seriously enough.

    However it may be a sign that you need to take a short break from wedding planning and spend time reconnecting with the man you love 🙂

    Good luck!!!

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