(Closed) Oh FILs, why must you be so ridiculous?

posted 7 years ago in Family
Post # 3
52 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

Oh wow, that really can be a downer! I can say that I understand you to a point. My man is in National Guard and with him coming and going, it doesn’t make it easy to do some things. Like plan a wedding and talk to the to-be in-laws.


I can’t think of why they would suddenly be like this! Besides from what you said, them not being all for it from the beginning. Maybe it’s suddenly hitting them that they’ll be without their son? Specially since he’s gone now they know they’ll see less of him. That can be rough. It’s too bad they’re not more supportive about it all though! You two have been together for quite some time, it would be nice if they were happy knowing that he has you to come home to.

Post # 4
4824 posts
Honey bee

Is he probably going to be deployed or moved to a station as part of the Army? Because if he is you can use that as the rational for getting married young to his parents because you do not want to be left behind, per the Army’s rules about spouses.

Post # 5
3968 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

Is he the youngest? I feel like my SO’s mother hates me just because I’m “taking away her baby.” She would deny it.

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