(Closed) Oh hell no!

posted 4 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 32
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4238 posts
Honey bee

sumshine.dawn:  

So sorry to hear of this drama. What a bummer!

🙁

 

I was able to avoid it altogether: if one of our moms didn’t give birth to you, you were not in the wedding party. Well, except my dad. He was allowed. 😛

Post # 34
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243 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 2014

sumshine.dawn:  If that were me I’d tell my Future Mother-In-Law to GTH!  Lol well, in a classy and modest way of course.  Good for you for putting your foot down.  

My only thought, in case this actually causes some rediculously uncalled for drama would be to give her a job for wedding… programs, guest book… some d list job, but at least if it came to something, you could still say you included her and it’s not your fault she’s ungratful for it!  

Post # 35
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4943 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

sumshine.dawn:  If you must have her do something, let her be the guest book attendant. 😉

Post # 37
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

sumshine.dawn:  I’m glad you said “we”. In addition to all the good advice you’ve got, I suggest it’s your Fiance (not you) who tells his mother to jump in the lake that Future Sister-In-Law won’t be a bridesmaid.

Post # 39
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2015

sumshine.dawn:  girl,  stand your ground!  No fuckin’ way you gonna allow some bitchy nobody to be your bridesmaid! Who the hell Future Mother-In-Law thinks she is? Don’t allow that old witch to manipulate you into guilt.  You’re not guilty of nothing!  No,  have only your best friends or siblings as your attendants.  And,  you’re way too nice,  which encourages Future Mother-In-Law  into pressing you further,  because she thinks you’re weak.  (Untrue,  but that’s how bullies think). Keep strong! 

Post # 40
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Bumble bee

Somebody please link to these delicious sounding stories! I want to know what the High Heels incident is! 

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