(Closed) Oh man, what am I doing here!?

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

I dont understand what you mean by “what am i doing here”, where are you referring to?
and that is so sketchy that he didnt tell her that he was engaged! 

Post # 5
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

OHH i understand now. Well how long have you two been dating/together romantically? depending on how long he has known this girl, i think its definitely weird if she didnt know he was with anyone. if she didnt know him well at all, i dont see why she would be encouraged to giving him her number.

Post # 6
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: February 2015

I’m totally lost. His “wife” knows? knows what? your FI’s wife or who’s wife?

Post # 8
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Newbee
  • Wedding: May 2017

@soontobemrsm11:  I think she meant the best friends wife. Because I questioned that too. But I could be wrong. 

Post # 10
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: April 2014

His best friend’s wife. 

“His best friend and his wife”

I was confused at first too lol

Post # 11
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

@MrsPlaidShirt:  Ok i’m sorry but could you please be a little more clear? what you wrote was hard to undertand. Who is “he’s been dating her for a week”—who is the “he” and who is the she? Who got divorced and who told you about her?

Post # 13
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

@MrsPlaidShirt:  Also, if a girl was talking to my Fiance and telling him she was in love with him AND he failed to mention he was engaged, I’d be pissed!

Post # 15
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

@MrsPlaidShirt:  Thanks for clarifying! Ok–so now we all know who she is. It’s weird that she’s still contacting him, considering he only dated her for a week, and she still tells him she’s in love with him… are you upset about it? or does it not bother you?

Post # 16
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Bee Keeper

So:

1) you and your Fiance are pretty recently engaged and he is deployed, but will be home soon

2) you have only met his family and close friends, so this  news of engagement is not exactly ” out”

3) you checked FI’s FB and responded to a woman that he used to date between you and wife 1

4) Woman on FB seemed happy that ” he” ( being you) responded and you’re worried that, since he doesn’t often check FB, he is being sneaky and not letting on to how much communication he and this woman have?

5) Now you feel bad and are questioning what exactly the relationship is between them and also if you should have just left it alone?

Am I close?

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