(Closed) Oh my god, he’s doing ring research!

posted 8 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
492 posts
Helper bee

Honestly if he asked and you told him that you still love it I would keep quiet. As hard and it may be. But I think your silence and the fact that you guys are getting along great has brought about sort of the sense of urgency to propose. Don’t mess it up. Just in case he has something planned. Guys like to keep quiet because they’re wanting to be special and a surprise etc. So don’t rob him of that. Let him do his thing. I’ve known my SO has had the ring for a little over 2 weeks and I’ve kept quiet so that he can enjoy his planning and proposal. Hang in there! That’s soooo exciting and such a good sign for you that a proposal is coming down the pipe quick! Good Luck!!

Post # 5
32 posts
  • Wedding: June 2012

Keep quiet… you will appreciate it being as much of a surprise as possible when the time actually comes.


Props to you on not saying anything for months!  I could never do it… I honestly gave up “engagement talk” for Lent this year, ha.  It was HARD.

Post # 6
3306 posts
Sugar bee

He is on it- so don’t say anything else- *yay* for progress!

Post # 7
1566 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

That is so awesome!!! I agree with everyone that you sould not say anything…you did sooo good to keep quiet in the first place!! Good Luck…hopefully a proposal is coming your way soon!!

Post # 8
3221 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

I wouldn’t say anything! 

I had something like this happen – Fiance asked me one random morning before we were engaged, “Your ring size is a 5, right?” …I used all of my might not to FREAK OUT and start dancing around happily…

Congratulations for this! Hopefully he buys it soon!

Post # 9
132 posts
Blushing bee



You are so strong to stay quiet when it comes to engagment talk. I must mention something offhand once a week.

Yay! You know it’s coming!!!

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