(Closed) OH MY GOD. I just thought of something. Fiance and I decided on an intimate …

posted 9 years ago in Beehive
Post # 3
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676 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2009

How far in your planning are you? Have you booked the venue and invited everyone? If you’re not that far along, its fine…just get together and figure out the final guest list.

Post # 4
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596 posts
Busy bee

Don’t forget…even if you give each of them 25 invites, that means you and Fiance can’t invite any of your own friends! 

Post # 5
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2204 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2009

Dno’t worry, not everyone will come, and you should have plenty of time to sit down with your parents and future in laws and work it all out!  Guest lists are always hard and time-consuming. You’re not alone!

Post # 6
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337 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2009

You’ll be fine! Just get your list together and call the parents and let them know your goof up! Chances are they won’t have the full 50 already.

Post # 7
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378 posts
Helper bee

Not everyone you invite will come, don’t worry. Or have an A and B list, so that when your A people decline, you can invite your B people.

Post # 8
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681 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2009

if you dont have a date set, you still have plenty of time to make these kinds of changes. your family will understand the change. just remind them that you’re still in the initial stages of planning and your math was a little off. they’ll understand that they have less invites to contribute, and if they dont you can always site budget concerns.

Post # 9
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2018

You should probably wait until you have a venue booked and a date picked to firm up your guest list. You never know what the venue you finally choose will be able to hold or the price per person might dictate a different number.

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