(Closed) Oh my word….overwhelmed

posted 8 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
1075 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

Well think of it this way.

You’ll have a husband all that much sooner. 


Just breathe.  Tackle one thing at a time.  And turn to us if you need any more support.

Post # 4
714 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

Hang in there!  It could be worse..  It will be stressful but just think how nice it will be to be married in the end!  Try to pull all ur family and friends together…i am sure you can fing peiple to help you.

Post # 5
75 posts
Worker bee

Dont worry and dont get stressed out- bad for your skin! =)

Either way, you’re getting married….and you have so much to look forward to!

Post # 6
928 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

I completely understand that honey, my Fiance is currently deployed and when we set a date we made sure it was far enough out that even if his date was pushed back, our wedding date would be fine. I was terrified of something happening, too and still am cause you never know with the military! 

I am so sorry, I know how stressful that must be! Since it is because of the military, I’m sure you could talk to your vendors and have them help you out and be flexible to some extent since he has orders of a date change. Maybe the invites can be redone with a minimal fee since it’s a military thing. The church, well my fingers are crossed that it will be available!!

Just take it one step at a time, first thing is to discuss this with all your vendors and see what they are willing to do and don’t be afraid to beg and cry ( 😉 ). Breathe and stay calm, one step at a time to get this taken care of. And look at it this way, you get to become a Mrs. a little bit early 🙂


Post # 7
18643 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

My goodness!  I’m sure that you can pull something together in less time!

Post # 8
368 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2010

Everything will work out in the end the way it was supposed to be. Like the other ladies said you will be married that much sooner! It sucks that we can’t predict the future or what is going to happen. You just have to make the best of it and its still your wedding day! You will be marrying your love and everything will work out.

Post # 10
1135 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2009

Oh, you poor thing!  I would be freaking out, but that’s because I’m a neurotic worrier–you can DEFINITELY do this, and it sounds like everything is working out!  Your family and friends will help, and before you know it, it will all be happening and you’ll be MARRIED!! YAY!  Good luck!

Post # 11
2393 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: December 2009

I can understand too!  Thanks to the military, I didn’t know my date was 100% cleared until about a month and a half before the wedding!  It’s so doable too, especially beings you’ve been planning.  Just try to look at the big picture of being married and so happy and try not to focus on the little things that will drive you crazy!

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