(Closed) Oh my …you guys won't believe what my friend considers cheating.

posted 8 years ago in Relationships
Post # 47
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: December 2013

[content moderated for language, snark] It’s a matter of opinion, I guess. I just can’t fathom having such insecurities plaguing my relationship. I have much more important things to stress about in my life.

Post # 48
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

I believe that emotional cheating is just as bad as  physically cheating.

If my Fiance were to ever lust over another woman, and especially THINK OF SOMEONE ELSE while having sex with me, I would be done.

Post # 49
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Bee Keeper

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@HelleCat:  Hehe are they good?! I LOVED 50 Shades. I’ve been looking for another erotica…that was my first ever, so I’ll have to check it out 😉

Post # 51
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

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@the_future_mrs:  I just can’t fathom having such insecurities plaguing my relationship.

Lol. Why is it that anytime someone sees a woman as more sexually conservative than themselves she is automatically insecure? We don’t know this girl. She could be super confident and just not like her man not in the game when they’re having sex.

Post # 52
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Buzzing bee

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@roxymalone:  This is basically how i feel.

Post # 55
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

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@pokie45:  Wellll I thought you did, but I also assumed that y’all were good enough friends who are able to be honest with each other without being hurtful so I’m sure that it went off well in person! Just rubbed me the wrong way in print :). Men are human (and so are women) but we all individually have to decide what we let that be an excuse for, you know?

Post # 56
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Bumble bee

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@ChuckNorris:  Well if you like some slap and tickle yes.

The Marquise De Sade is an author during the french revolution period. He was an proponant of extreme freedom unrastrained by morality. A libertarian at his best. The words sadism and sadist are derived from his name

Aka, The Godfather of Kinky Sex.

 

So yes. Good if dated stuff, but be warned not for the faint of heart.

If you’d like something more dirty than 50 shades, but less than the Marquis, I suggest the sleeping beauty series by ann rice.

Post # 57
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

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@pokie45:  She’s very insecure and admits to it, but is trying to work on it.

Fair enough. Just saying that to those of us who don’t know her story, insecurity isn’t always the only option, although you’d think it was on these message boards lol

Post # 59
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

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@MrsWrangler:  Agreed.

 

I am much more conservative than many people. And it’s one of the things my Fiance loves the most about me.

 

Being insecure and being conservative are two completely different things. I am conservative because TO ME (and this is in no refrence to others) me being conservative shows I respect and love my body and myself. You can show your respect and love for yourself in other ways completely different but to me that’s why I’m conservative. So it’s quite the opposite.

 

I know that I am good enough, I know that I am special enough to be the only one my SO desires, and I was blessed to find that man. And until I found him I wasn’t willing to accept anything less than what I thought I deserved. I show him the same respect, he needs to show to me. And we both do.

Post # 60
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@HelleCat:  I totally added it to my cart on Amazon, but I’m glad I waited for your response, hehe. Sounds like it would be a little much for me 😉 More dirty or as dirty as 50 Shades. I liked (okay loved) some Ann Rice in high school, I’ll have to check it out.

Post # 61
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2013

Judging by some of these responses, I think it comes down to semantics really. Like I mentioned, for me, ‘cheating’ has to involve another human being.

The things described aren’t something I’d like in my relationship in any large quantities, however.. but I would not consider ‘cheating’.

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