(Closed) Oh no! I forgot…

posted 4 years ago in Paper
  • poll: How did not numbering/marking your RSVPS turn out?
    Didn't number them and it was fine : (28 votes)
    88 %
    Didn't number them and it was a huge mistake : (4 votes)
    13 %
  • Post # 3
    3200 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: October 2013

    @IzzyBear:  so far we have about 20 out of 100 cards back and every single one has a name written on it. i numbered mine, but i’m not sure if we’ll need to. not a huge deal

    you could also mark a little number on the back bottom corner of the return envelope, or on the flap.

    Post # 4
    777 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: October 2009

    @IzzyBear:  Out of ~150 invites, only 1 or 2 didn’t have names on them but we easily figured it out!

    Post # 5
    1425 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: August 2013 - Rosehill Community Center

    I went through and painstakingly numbered all of the RSVPs with my black light pen, and made sure everyone was sent the correct one, but everyone sent them back with their names on them!  So oh well…  I’m not sure it’s necessary!

    Post # 6
    1061 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: October 2012

    of the 80 or so invites I sent out only 2 didnt put their names. I had them numbered but even if I didn’t, it wouldn’t have been too difficult to figure out.

    Post # 7
    3773 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: December 1999

    You will be finre. I didn’t get a single one without names on them and was so glad I didn’t waste time doing it!

    Post # 8
    671 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: May 2013

    we sent out 125, and 5 had no names

    Post # 9
    474 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: September 2013

    I didn’t even know you were meant to number them.  Nope, we haven’t had any problems with that.

    Post # 10
    1608 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: August 2013

    I had 200+ invites sent – I have recieved almost 10+ without names. I am baffled. I am so upset I didn’t number!!! Gah!

    Post # 11
    3736 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: September 2014

    I had no idea this is what one was supposed to do. Good thing I read this post! 🙂

    Post # 12
    12614 posts
    Honey Beekeeper
    • Wedding: November 1999

    I numbered all of mine, but I had no issues whatsoever.  You’ll be fine, don’t stress! 

    Post # 13
    11242 posts
    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: August 2013

    We did number ours (no blacklight super secret pen or anything, just a small number on the back) and still got several back with no name. I’d be willing to bet that at least 1/3 of ours were returned not filled out correctly in some way.

    Post # 15
    1710 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: May 2013 - Walt Disney World

    We didn’t number ours but DH did handwrite every invited person’s name on the RSVP so there was no mistake on who was invited (tried to avoid added randoms).  We didn’t have a problem.

    Post # 16
    542 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: June 2012

    We didn’t number ours. I read about how good an idea it is to number the cards but in a rush to get it out on time it slipped my mind.

    We had a wedding of 160 guests. 76 cards sent out to individuals including plus-ones and families including children. There were 5 cards didn’t have the name on it but the people put their at least their address on the envelope, so we figured those out. There were another 2 we couldn’t figure out but we figured those out when we called to chase everyone else who had not RSVP’d. (and just for your info we had to chase 11 individuals/families to find out if they were coming. We had 5 people no-show, 2 couples and 1 was Dh’s aunt’s husband that got sick but the aunt came.)

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