(Closed) Oh no. My mother wants my father to be invited to the bachelor party weekend.

posted 10 years ago in Grooms/men
  • poll: Should the FOB be invited to the bachelor party weekend?
    Are you out of your mind? : (57 votes)
    84 %
    What's the big deal? : (8 votes)
    12 %
    Naturally! : (3 votes)
    4 %
  • Post # 17
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    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: June 2010

    Exactly!

    Post # 18
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    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: February 2008

    probably not for your Fiance.

    My dad did go to my husband’s tho….but he wasn’t into crazy debauchery so it was no big deal.  In fact the only one who even mentioned going to a strip club was my dad 🙂  they didn’t go….

    Post # 20
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    Worker bee

    Take her to see “The Hangover”. That oughta do it

    Post # 21
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    Honey bee
    • Wedding: November 1999

    My sister this weekend asked me if it would be ok to invite my Future Mother-In-Law to my bachlorette party.  I’m like… no do you see dad going to Rob’s?

     

    Post # 22
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    Honey bee
    • Wedding: November 1999

    Then again, I’m having a naughty one and a nice one. I’m going to the strip club and some of the Bridesmaid or Best Man won’t go to one, so I’m having one that just is going to the bars, so they all can go to my pre wedding partying events.  So I guess techniquely I could invite the Future Mother-In-Law to the nice one.

    But then again I don’t know if it would be awkard or not for her to be partying with a bunch of girls who are in their mid 20s-high 20s.

    I guess it depends on what you are doing for the bachlorette/ bachelor party.  If’s it’s a golf game… then yeah… if it a night out of partying… then maybe not.

    Post # 23
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    Busy bee

    My dad went to the early part of my husband’s, but it was low key.

    Is it possible that if he is actually invited to go to Vegas to share a suite with a bunch of debaucherous thirtysomethings, he will just say no?  So you could go through with the invite to make your mother feel better but not actually have to risk him saying yes?

    Post # 24
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    Busy bee
    • Wedding: June 2011

    Yea, I would say Hell to the no! I can’t imagine my Future Mother-In-Law going to mine. She is very relegious, so I can’t imagine the look on her face, if my bridesmaids took me to a male strip club. She would just die, haha.
    I agree though, if it was just a little dinner outing, golf thing whatever, I think it wouldn’t be such a big deal, but if they are going all out, then that could get super akward.

    Post # 25
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    Honey bee
    • Wedding: January 2011 - Vintage Villas

    Um yeah, I think that’s kind of weird! Your dad should definitely not go!

    Post # 26
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    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: December 2009

    In my family/small town, it’s natural to have FOB or MOG invited to the bachelor/bachelorette party.  But that’s usually because the bachelor/bachelorette party consists of renting an old school bus and going bar hopping.  My Future Mother-In-Law is invited to my bachelorette party, but I don’t think she’s going.  I don’t think my dad will want to go to my FH’s bachelor party, because it’s going to be 2 hours from his home.  But I think it totally depends on the situation, it’s normal for us, so it works for us.

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