(Closed) OH NO SHE DIDNT !! Get a load of this bees…..

posted 11 years ago in Family
Post # 48
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322 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

Ok, so 1. what did the coordinator tell her?  2. Has anyone talked to her???

Shoot post her phone number or e-mail and I’m sure there are bees that will tell her haha j/k!

Three words: OUT OF CONTROL!!!!

TALK TO HER ASAP!!!!

Post # 49
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Newbee
  • Wedding: February 2011

Oh WOW. Just read through the whole thread – I can’t believe your grandma is really going to try and do this!! AND to call YOUR WEDDING CONSULTANT to get a free ceremony for herself!  Honestly, get some of your relatives to talk to her and say its not appropriate to do this otherwise tell her she’s un-invited. I don’t think it’s fair for her to piggyback on your wedding day at all.

Post # 50
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1391 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

@mzsimmons: omg granny is out of control!!!!!!!!!!! somebody needs to be out in their place! Not cool. Her a** would be uninvited.. its not about anybody else but you & your fiance. She needs to stop trippin & stop trying to steal your thunder.

Post # 51
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2836 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: December 2010

@mzsimmons: Wow! That is unbelievable! Maybe you should trick her and change your wedding date.

Post # 52
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291 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

@bells: me too, lol.

 

Wow, I feel so bad for you. I have some people like this in my family, but it’s amazing that, in your family, it’s your grandma.

The bottom line is that you will be the radiant, happy, non-crazy bride… find comfort in that. Other than that, just remember that funny, borderline creepy stuff has to happen to SOMEBODY… you pulled the short straw from God on this one 😉

Post # 53
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291 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

@mzsimmons: I just read this last post of yours and I am even more amazed than I was on page one… hang in there, girlie. Pretty soon this will all be over and you can look back and, hopefully, laugh.

But, I also have to say that it is BS she wants her ceremony first. Under NO CIRCUMSTANCE should that be allowed. PERIOD. I agree with trying to switch yours to the day before, if possible.

Post # 54
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45 posts
Newbee
  • Wedding: August 2011

If there ever was a WTF moment, this is it.

I would def. be peed off. After all the planning you have done, someone swoops in and tries to tag along for a free ride. NOT COOL.

 

 

Post # 56
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322 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

 

 

@mzsimmons:

Well….if no one gets through to you’re gma before your wedding….

 

The upside is…you won’t be date twinsies… and it’s a two days after yours….and like you said most everyone will be gone…

Still royally sucks…and I hope she changes her mind!

Post # 57
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Newbee
  • Wedding: September 2011

WOW! This sounds like something my FI’s Grandmother would do!!

 

At least it will be after yours and not during your reception!! I went to a wedding where the uncle of the Groom hijacked the officiant during the reception to marry him and his gf IN THE PARKING LOT!! Everyone was speechless! The Uncle and his new wife then proceeded to pretend like the reception was their reception as well!! So ridiculous! The Bride and Groom were furious!

Post # 58
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3330 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

@mzsimmons: From someone who also has a grandmother who can be…well, a selfish b*tch, I’m so sorry! Little old ladies can be vicious :(.

Post # 59
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Worker bee

Good luck with that, I honestly dont know what I would do.

Post # 60
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74 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

wow maybe she forgot what is it like to be a bride for the first time (only times for many girls)?  and she wants to do it differently for hers since this is the forth time and had done it many different ways!  but oh my this is inappropriate.

Pls voice out and do something about it, don’t suck it out ’cause you’ll feel bad and might feel bitter afterward, and you don’t want that ’cause you won’t be able to do it again!

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