(Closed) OH NO SHE DIDNT !! Get a load of this bees…..

posted 11 years ago in Family
Post # 77
1364 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

@Encore:I think the issue is less to do with the fact that the wedding is now going to be after the OP’s but the fact that Granny had absolutely no tact in the situation. There’s a way to say “Hey, would you mind if I had a really small ceremony after yours, just with witnesses, whilst we’re in Jamaica?” instead of “Hey, I’m getting married in Jamaica too. At the same time as you are. Keep it a secret from the rest of the family would you?” and then giving the OP stick about the fact that she’s upset. I agree with you in that if there’s anything pre-wedding then it’s likely to be on the Sunday but it sounds like Granny is used to hijacking things off other family members so I think bellenga is correct in thinking that she’ll try to hijack any pre-wedding events that the OP organizes. 


The whole situation is a bit crazy. OP, have you spoken to her since? What’s the update? 

Post # 78
260 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: January 2011

whoa, granny’s tryin to steal your thunder? Ya, tell her to pay for your wedding for sure. next she will want a double wedding. Just tell her to have hers after yours..she can wait, I mean..she’s already done this like 3 times before. tell her to switch her date or somethin. maybe she will let u borrow her accessories and such…jk..good luck..yikes.

Post # 79
322 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

Any updates????

Post # 80
56 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: May 2008

wow I just read this thread for the first time now and my jaw is on the floor.   This is so insane!!!! I can’t believe she would do that.

I am so sorry you have to deal with that.  I hate drama and have some ppl in my life who always have to have it around.  For the most part I have tried to limit my contact with them as I find my life is happier drama free 🙂

I hope it all works out in the end!

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