- 11 years ago
- Wedding: July 2010
@Encore:I think the issue is less to do with the fact that the wedding is now going to be after the OP’s but the fact that Granny had absolutely no tact in the situation. There’s a way to say “Hey, would you mind if I had a really small ceremony after yours, just with witnesses, whilst we’re in Jamaica?” instead of “Hey, I’m getting married in Jamaica too. At the same time as you are. Keep it a secret from the rest of the family would you?” and then giving the OP stick about the fact that she’s upset. I agree with you in that if there’s anything pre-wedding then it’s likely to be on the Sunday but it sounds like Granny is used to hijacking things off other family members so I think bellenga is correct in thinking that she’ll try to hijack any pre-wedding events that the OP organizes.
The whole situation is a bit crazy. OP, have you spoken to her since? What’s the update?