(Closed) oh no! women from outdated guest list invited to shower. advice?

posted 8 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: March 2018

Oh no! I think you do have to invite them, are they close with anyone on the “a” list? if not you could diy some easy invitations for them.

Post # 4
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

Yeah, if you’re inviting them to the shower they should be invited to the wedding.  You can send different guests different invitations if you don’t have enough of the originals.  No one is going to know that they got a different invitation from another guest.. and even if they do, who cares!  But sometimes depending on the printer you used you can contact them and order an extra 25 invites (w/ my printer you have to order in quantities of 25 at least).  Sorry that happened… what a headache!

Post # 5
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Buzzing bee

Yeah unfortunately you need to invite them now.  Just hope they won’t all come!

Post # 6
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 1969

I gave my hosts a list and then they added people who were not on the list and subsequently not on our guest list for invites ๐Ÿ™  Some were iffy’s and I went ahead and sent them an invite but there was 1 that I did not send an invite to, I don’t think.

Post # 7
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: June 2010

Yes! You have to invite them ๐Ÿ™‚ If you didn’t mind you could get inviataions somewhere else just for those “Blist” guests

Post # 9
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2010

I think that your concern is more about going over on the number…not the invites, am I correct?

But yes, you should invite them now. I hate that that happened.

Post # 11
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

oh no! this reminds me of that Friends episode where Phoebe and Rachel plan Monica’s Bridal Shower using her address book and wind up inviting all these people they thought she was close to (i.e. her accountant who she hadn’t used in years). i agree with the other ladies about a b list. 

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