(Closed) Oh now you want to tell me…

posted 6 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
Hostess
16213 posts
Honey Beekeeper

Ugh, it’s so annoying, I know. We had someone RSVP “yes” about three days before the wedding. I wasn’t thrilled about that, to say the least. And then we still had no-shows.

Post # 4
Member
1414 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

So rude……

Post # 5
Member
13073 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

Ugh, all these RSVP posts make me afraid for when my time comes…

Post # 7
Member
1361 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

This is why I will call everyone who doesn’t RSVP.  Hopefully that will prevent this, although I get the feeling it may not…

Post # 8
Member
1880 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

That is rude and obnoxious!  Sorry you are dealing with that.

Post # 9
Member
871 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

Just curious if you called them after the RSVP date and they told you no then changed their mind again? 

Just sent out invites…not looking forward to the aftermath 

Post # 10
Member
212 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

You can always tell them that sorry it is too late and they cannot be accomodated- not your problem that they are rude and can’t RSVP on time.

Post # 11
Member
2067 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

I was SO frustrated when I got back from the honeymoon and realized just how many people didn’t show up… We spent A LOT of money on them for them to just not show up…

Post # 12
Member
85 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

It is frustrating. Our rsvp date was last Wednesday. I’m still waiting for about 30 of them. 

Post # 15
Member
3303 posts
Sugar bee

Yikes…. I can’t wait to go through RSVP drama.

Post # 16
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4193 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: July 2012 - Baltimore Museum of Industry

@hecallsmelove:  Wait…they told you they couldn’t make it, so you didn’t send an invite. They buy plane tickets anyway, without calling anyone to say they can come? What is wrong with these people? These have to be family, right? Cause no one else is that crazy? :)-

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