- 7 years ago
- Wedding: September 2010
So I posted yesterday about how I wanted to get together with my SIL and talk with her about why Mother-In-Law told me SIL said she thinks I hate her and why things are so strained between us. On the lovely Bees advice, I emailed her and told her I would love to get together with her, not saying that I wanted us to talk about things and clear the air…just saying maybe we could go shopping or go to lunch or something. She e-mails me back and says why don’t Darling Husband and I check our schedules and figure out a weekend we could come and visit her and her husband. I guess she misinterpreted my message and thought we both wanted to come visit. So now what? Do I tell her that just I want to come or do Darling Husband and I both go? I’m just worried if we both go that there will be excuses made so she and I don’t have to hang out one on one and the discussion will never happen.
I also hate that this situation requires this much thought and agonizing over everything I do!