(Closed) Ok to Send Email to Bridesmaids to confirm their participation?

posted 6 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
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1724 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

Don’t be scared—you need to find out now if they are willing to participate! I wouldn’t be offended.

Post # 4
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1328 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2014

I think it’s actually nice of you to check in since it has been a while since they agreed to be bridesmaids.  If for any reason one of them could no longer participate they might feel bad backing out, so you putting it out their that you’re cool with it would be nice.  And if they all still can then it’s just a nice way to let them know where you are in the planning.

Post # 5
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37 posts
Newbee

I think that you should go for it. And say exactly what you’ve said here–that you don’t want to inconvience them in any way, that that’d still be invited to the wedding, and that no hard feelings will come of this.  Your wedding is one of the most important times of your Life and you want to be sure that whenever you need to call on your bridesmaids they will be able to help! hth 🙂

Post # 6
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418 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: March 2013

Why don’t you send them the email and then say something along the lines of…

I’ll need help with certain tasks involving the wedding. Would you ladies be willing to help with those items, and if so, how much time do you think you could devote to assisting me so that it doesn’t interfere with other more important things in your lives (work, family, etc.). Any extra time you can donate, I’d be most appreciative of.

That way, you’re allowing them to determine what they can commit to and they aren’t feeling like they’re at your beck and call whenever. 

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