(Closed) Okay I hit the wall.

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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451 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

I understand it is stressful, but try to look at it from their point of view.

Your wedding isn’t the only wedding they have.  They could have multiple in a day.  Which is not an excuse to neglect you, but what seems like the end of the world to you might not be a big deal to them since they have gone through hundreds of weddings and know what is super important and timely and what isn’t.  Also they are dealing with cranky brides all day!  That has got to be a job in itself!  They probably get yelled at all day and then get bitched about, so sometimes I don’t blame them for not jumping the moment a bride screams!  But I’m sure you’re not like that at all 😉

Post # 4
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46421 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

I think you have every reason to be concerned if your wedding is in July. It is June 28 and you have every right to have final contracts in hand.

I honestly think some of these people behave the way they do because they can. They have your deposit, they know you can’t switch at the last moment, they know it’s an emotional time and they can get away with it.

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