(Closed) Okay, I thought this was kind of off.

posted 8 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
536 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: February 2011

Definitely weird.  I would feel strange about it, too.

Post # 4
2083 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2010

yeah… that is a little messed up lol

she needs to be honest with the girl about it. it sounds like you and this girl randomly cross paths, so she would end up just making it very very awkward for you. plus it would be likely that this girl would end up feeling animosity toward you after being told something like that, so your friend needs to realize that this does not put you in a good position. if she cares about you, she wouldn’t do that.

Post # 5
408 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2010

Its very weird….especially since your friend is no where close to walking down te aisle!

Post # 6
1120 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2009

It not’s only weird, it’s cowardly.

Ah well, at least it was a hypothetical statement and it’s not something you need to worry about anytime soon.

Post # 7
4480 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: March 2010 - Calamigos Ranch

Weird. But she probably would have done this even if she didn’t tell you… so I’d pretend the conversation never took place. 😉

Post # 9
4001 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

That is a bit off.  My friends and I have avoided certain things by using this excuse but that was only because it was very well known that the two people don’t get along.  When someone’s confronted with this kind of stuff, they tend to go on the defensive and an ugly argument is the last thing you’ll want to deal wtih.  I was once not invited to a dinner because I didn’t get along with my friends friend.  But I don’t like her because she came to a surprise birthday party that my Fiance threw for me and she stole my wallet.  Um, I win.  So obviously, it hasn’t always always turned out well so even if she’s not getting married anytime soon, make sure she doesn’t use that excuse. 

Post # 10
2015 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2009

Oh my gosh, that’s so bizzare! That would bother me, too, but like you said, she’s not engaged or anything, so  you don’t need to worry about it. Phew!

Post # 12
1566 posts
Bumble bee

I would discount these types of comments from someone who isn’t even in a relationship, much less engaged or planning a wedding. Who knows if she’ll even remember that she said when and if she’s actually putting together her bridal party. 

PS I do agree it’s weird, just don’t think it’s a huge deal

Post # 13
1184 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

Honesty is the best policy in this case.

Post # 15
34 posts
  • Wedding: September 2010

I agree I would feel a little weird too. It would put you in an awkward situation! It’s no fun to be in the middle. She should just grow a pair of ovaries and tell the girl what the real deal is. Laughing

Post # 16
1982 posts
Buzzing bee

So odd… At least you have a while to, um, consider what you want to do about it. Good luck with dealing with this girl!

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