(Closed) Okay to Hand out Different Design Invitations to Fiance’s Friends?

posted 10 years ago in Paper
Post # 3
228 posts
Helper bee

If they’re just as nice (or nicer!), I think you’ll be fine =)  No worries!

Post # 4
2324 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2018

Ok, I would usually say no to this, but they are guys afterall. I guess you can’t do anything about it anyway, except sending a different one. I would NOT send a color copy though, that just sounds bad! Good luck.

Post # 5
46 posts
  • Wedding: February 2008

Most likely, no one will see another person’s invitation, so no one will know that they got an invitation that looks different from someone else’s. So long as the invitations they get still look nice, everything will be fine!

Post # 6
67 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: October 2018 - The Rivers Club

just say "oh, I couldn’t decide which design I liked better so I went with both!" and laugh it off. they will have no idea which design was the back-up

Post # 7
189 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: October 2008

I think it’s totally, absolutely, so completely fine. The only way I can see it being a problem is if *you* were bothered by it, but you seem really easygoing about it. Send ’em off so the rest of us can be jealous that you can check it off your list! 😀

Post # 8
2292 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2008

Absolutely nobody is going to show up with their invitation in hand and start comparing it to all the other invitations, so it doesn’t matter at all.  Go ahead and send whatever you think looks nice, and don’t worry about it.

Post # 9
629 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2005

You’re just fine doing that.

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