(Closed) older flower girl?

posted 8 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
752 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2010 - Ocean View Villas/Jasmine Seafood Restaurant

Our flower girl was 8 years old.  We let her hold a bouquet like the BMs.  Her’s was a little smaller and she begged my Maid/Matron of Honor to switch with her.  We also let her wear a little make-up.  She was pretty happy all day.

Post # 4
435 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: December 2010

I would call her a junior bridesmaid and have her go down the aisle first. 

I would look at it like you are not having a flower girl…

Post # 5
2006 posts
Buzzing bee

I would upgrade her to jr. bridesmaid and give her a smaller bouquet or a pomander to walk down the aisle with. I work with 11 year olds and I can’t think of any of them wanting to be called a “flower girl” since they are at that age where they want to be older.

Post # 6
2788 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: January 2011

We have two flower girls; one older and one who is much younger.  The older girl is wearing the same color as the bridesmaids and knows that her ‘responsibilities’ include helping the younger flower girl.  She’s very excited.  We’ll have her hair done also.

Post # 8
311 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

I would have her carry a bouquet. You could also have her in the same dress, if possible, as the BM’s. I bet she would love to feel like an adult for the day 🙂

Post # 9
1184 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

i agree that that age sounds more appropriate for a junior bridesmaid. they usually make a junior (aka less revealing) version of most bridesmaid dresses that she could wear, and she could have a small bouquet. i bet she’d love that, and would feel very grown up.

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