(Closed) older sister not as bridesmaid…thoughts?

posted 7 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

My sister is only 2 years older than me and I won’t be asking her to be one of my bridesmaids. Simply just because we don’t get along. Like, at all lol.

Its your choice, pick whoever you feel the most comfortable with. If you feel odd asking your older sister and youve already said she wouldnt mind, then I wouldnt worry about it. Some people just have different relationships with their siblings and you shouldnt feel like you “have” to include anyone in your bridal party just because you’re related.

Post # 4
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

If you guys have a good relationship try to involve her in as much of the wedding planning as you can  like letting her go dress shopping with you helping you pick a venue stuff like that

Post # 5
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: December 2011

I wouldn’t worry about it if she is fine with it.  If she is a lot older than the rest of the bridesmaid, she might be uncomfortable or at least, I would.  I second mrsjjohnson2b idea and ask her to go dress shopping with you and pick out venues.

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