Oldest man that you've been with? Or biggest age difference?

posted 3 years ago in Intimacy
Post # 46
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: February 1997

I’ve been with a man 8 years older than myself (nothing to write home about), and several men my age or younger. Darling Husband is 2-1/2 years younger than I am, and he is perfect. My dad was 22 years older than my mum, so I got to witness first-hand what can happen when a younger woman becomes the caretaker for an older man (and also has two young children). My dad died while I was in high school and I never wanted that as a guarantee (or almost a guarantee given the age difference) for my own relationship.

Post # 48
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91 posts
Worker bee

I was 20 he was 30 when we first met. To this day, best sex ever. Even after 5 years.

Post # 48
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605 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2018

I was 23 and he was 35. It was a one time thing, we were both very drunk and in another country on a a vacation with a bunch of colleagues. I barely remember the sex because I was so drunk. We still see each other every so often and are friends.

Post # 49
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681 posts
Busy bee

katkah8 :  Are you sure you aren’t an old man trying to get his jollies off on a wedding forum? Because thatd be pretty pathetic.

My SO is younger than me, and I’ve never been attracted to older men whatsoever. And 57 would be waaay too old for me.

Post # 50
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2002 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2017

ladyvictoria :  oh did he tell you old he was when you met or he didn’t say nothing til you liked him?  My dad were 42 when im 21!

Post # 51
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: April 2016 - Manhattan, NY

SoonMrsCrocker2 : Age came up on our first date. I was kind of surprised because he looks younger than he is, but it wasn’t an issue. My grandparents were 20 something years apart in age so it wasn’t unheard of to me or my family. 

Post # 52
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2018

I was 18, he was 51. Just sex. 

Relationship Wise, my fiance is 11 years my senior 

Post # 53
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106 posts
Blushing bee

katkah8 :  Hahaha glad you’re having a wonderful time with this man. I was reading your post and laughing to myself thinking, “Okay Carrie, enjoy your time with the Russian.” yell

Edited: Just realised this post is months old but someone has resurrected it. Well, I stand by my words that this sounds like Sex and the City.

Post # 54
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625 posts
Busy bee

katkah8 :  Biggest age difference I’ve had is 2 years younger than me and 3 years older than me. 

Post # 55
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625 posts
Busy bee

katkah8 :  just some food for though, if it doesn’t bother you, why did you make the post? I hear a lot of people vigorously defending huge age differences and I’ll hold my tongue, but will urge you to probe your own intentions– why is it so much a topic for you if it’s not an issue? Seems it is on your minds. 

Post # 57
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Newbee
  • Wedding: May 2020

18 years. I was 22 and he was 40. Dating/fling that lasted about 6 months, but was a sexual awakening for me.  Yes, very attentive, sex was GREAT, he was a great guy.  We never had a good “life connection”. He was divorced, had kids, carer.  I was finishing college, not ready for kids, and not looking to get tied down (out side of his bed…LOL)

Post # 58
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88 posts
Worker bee

doglovingwife :  not to judge, but a 37 year old man having sex with a 17 year old child is not ok in my book….

 

Large Age gaps sound great when everyone is young and active, but imagine being 40 or 50 and caring for an old elderly man, or having your kids with a father who looks like a grandfather and passes away when they are too young…  Not my cup of tea…

Post # 59
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: City, State

honeyhoney2717 :  the age of sexual consent is 16 in the UK so we were both consenting parties. Of course our opinion on things differ greatly.

 

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