(Closed) OMG Bees….IT’S OVER

posted 11 years ago in Waiting
Post # 152
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1035 posts
Bumble bee

@DreamingBee:  I totally think you guys did the right thing.  I took a lot of courage for him to tell you the truth and he did.  Instead of you settling for him never being ready you did the hard thing and sad goodbye.  I know it hurts know but it’ll get better in time.  One day the right guy for you will come along.  The guy who knows he wants to spend the rest of his life with you.  I wish you all the best and I know you can get through this.

Post # 153
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219 posts
Helper bee

Just popping in again for the “We Love Dreamingbee Party”! I see you are still chugging along and being strong!! Like my southern mama would say..’DARLIN’ I AM SO PROUD OF YOU!”

Post # 155
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637 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

πŸ˜€

Post # 157
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955 posts
Busy bee

This is fantastic news!  You know it’s cliche but when doors close it is so others can open….you are on your way!

Post # 158
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1078 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 2009

The thought just crossed my mind that maybe you’ll meet Mr. Right at your new job?? πŸ™‚

Post # 159
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219 posts
Helper bee

@DreamingBee: FANTASTIC NEWS!!! I agree, maybe Mr. Right is waiting in your new job πŸ™‚

Post # 160
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186 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

That is wonderful news!  I just wanted to sign in to say that you are awesome.  And you’re doing great. πŸ™‚

Post # 161
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93 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

Well now you are officiallyback to waiting! Waiting to hear about your new awesome job!!

This seems like it would be perfect, and I bet you’ll rock the interview with the other two people.

Keep us updated! I want to hear about the other interviews!

Post # 162
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924 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

You are doing so well! It sounds like the new job prospects are coming along so well. I hope you do get it!

Somebody mentioned doing things for yourself – and I would totally second this! Especially going shopping – after my last break up my friend took me out shopping and I found two dresses and another skirt and top that I now call my hot girl clothes… they made me feel extremely hot and powerful in them and even to this day when I wear any of them I get compliments – must be the magic break up power in those clothes and the confidence they give me! Spoil yourself and buy something that makes you feel good in it!

Post # 163
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952 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2009

So happy that the job prospect looks good.  You’re doing an awesome job! 

Post # 164
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1074 posts
Bumble bee

As weird as it is to think about ‘perfect timing’ during something like this, the job stuff is actually pretty perfect for you right now which is awesome! I can only imagine how helpful it would be to have something so time consuming to completely and totally take over all of your time. Fingers crossed that you get it!

Post # 165
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310 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

I’m glad the ‘Bee has been such a comfort to you!

I think I’m in the minority on this…

Fiance and I had been together a year and he hadn’t even said he loved me. I knew he did but he hadn’t said it. We were living together by then. By a year and a half I was feeling “the itch” (he’d said it by then). We had “the talk” around a year and a half and he said quite frankly that he wasn’t ready and didn’t know when he’d be ready.

I didn’t leave. It didn’t even cross my mind to leave. He makes me happy, he makes me a better person. And with or without a ring, I’d stay with him. For me, it was more important to have him in my life than to be engaged or married.

There were a lot of tough conversations and hurt feelings but we worked through it. Although it sounds super cliche (warning, string of cliches to follow) if it’s meant to be, it’ll all work out. Everything happens for a reason. Etc. πŸ™‚

You sound like an amazingly strong woman and I just have to give you millions of kudos and hugs! You’re definitely destined for great things, whatever they may be!

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