(Closed) OMG Bees….IT’S OVER

posted 11 years ago in Waiting
Post # 272
272 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

I’m curious… what  happened to the new job?

Post # 274
924 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

Hey Dreamingbee! Don’t stress on seeing this new guy… just enjoy exploring where it takes you.

I started dating my SO a month after I broke up with my ex… we tried to take it slow and he had friends telling him not to get involved with me but we just couldn’t help it. Sometimes the timing is a bit wrong, but it is the right person and you can’t be scared of that.

The only suggestion I had was to be completely honest with the new guy and how you are feeling. If your ex contacts you, let him know and establish that trust pretty early on.

The first 3 months after I broke up with my ex he was a total turd… sending me 20 page letters, trying to find out where I had moved to, and basically trying to get back together. I told my SO every single time, and let him see everything he was saying to me. I felt it was important because my ex was harassing me so much that I didnt want my SO getting confused by it.

You deserve happiness, and whether this guy is the real deal or not, you should just enjoy the ride!

good luck with the new job and potential move!

Post # 276
85 posts
Worker bee

@DreamingBee: I am so happy for you! I am glad you found a guy who makes you feel this way. Don’t worry about if he’s the one or not or if your ex was the one – just enjoy your time with him, like others have said. ๐Ÿ™‚

Post # 277
219 posts
Helper bee

Hey Sister!! Per some Bee’s request I have opened up a post-breakup thread for us ๐Ÿ™‚ That we can be OFFICIALLY done with our ex’s and have a great new place to talk about all the good news we have been sharing with everyone! I am going to do all my update posting on this new thread, so you should join me…you’ll love the title!!


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