(Closed) OMG HELP! Am I OVERREACTING??

posted 7 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2010

@sparkleexplosion: I would just assume he isn’t interested and move on. You’re not exclusive. He’s blowing you off. Move on.

Post # 4
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Buzzing bee

Sorry but it seems to me he’s blowing you off and isn’t interested. If he wants to talk/hang out with you he will put forth the effort. Don’t reach out to him again. 

Post # 5
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: December 2010

Agree with mwitter80. Move on, don’t contact him anymore…. go meet someone more interesting 🙂

Post # 7
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: December 2010

@sparkleexplosion: have you read the book “He’s just that not into you”

 

to paraphrase the book, he’s not into you if he’s not calling you, if he’s not excited to speak to you, if he’s not texting you etc etc

this guy even made it easier and told you THAT’S HOW he ends ‘relationships’…. there’s nothing to read into. He’s not into you.

Post # 8
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: December 2010

@sparkleexplosion: I might get told off for telling you this, but if he contacts you then you don’t respond immediately, you take a couple of days to return this calls etc. Make him see you’re not right there waiting for him to reach out; make him work for it.

If he is interested (big IF there), then he will find a way to get your attention! xx good luck!!

Post # 9
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Bee Keeper

In my opinion… if a man wants to talk to you, he will pick up the phone and call. I know it sounds harsh, but there are plenty of men out there who dont play these types of games to get hung up on one who does.  I say to  just take it as a sign that you two should just be friends and move on from him in the romantic sense.

Just ignoring someone because it doesn’t work out doesn’t sound like he is very mature and it doesn’t sound like he knows how to 1) handle confrontation in any capacity well 2) know how to communicate his feelings 3) respect someone else’s feelings in the right way.

Again, I am sorry this may sound harsh but please don’t waste another ounce of your time on someone who isn’t emotionally available.

 

Post # 10
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2010

@sparkleexplosion: I’m sure because a guy who is really interested in you, calls and texts, and wants to talk and spend time together. He  doesn’t blow you off and not talk to you. He’s excited to talk to you regardless of how tired he is or how often he’s been traveling, etc.

I see you deleted your post which is your choice, I just am assuming you weren’t getting the answers you wanted. Why ask then?

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