(Closed) "OMG I can't believe you suggested that" moment of the day

posted 6 years ago in Destination Weddings
Post # 3
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

@sizzi09:  Youch, I probably would have had something snarky to say to my Fiance if he said that, too.

The only thing I can think of is that my Fiance doesn’t want to have chairs at the ceremony because we have to pay to rent garden chairs. Like, he just wants everyone to kind of awkwardly stand near us. And to make it worse, we have some mobility-impaired, ill, and elderly people attending who will definitely need chairs.

Post # 4
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Bumble bee

HA! I would have been pissed, too.

“Hey honey, as much as I’d like to have non-stop sex with you on our honeymoon, I told my brother he could sleep in the next bed. …Hey, what are you doing with that hot frying pan….AHHHHH!”

 

Post # 5
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 2012

wow id be upset too! my Fiance has said PLENTY of them..but the one that hits me in the head right now is..he told me to invite his mom to my bachorlette party 

brief back story- when he still lived with her- she loved me ( even paid for a trip for us!) when he moved in with me- HATED ME cuz i took her baby from her, she tried to even break us up!!.. when we got engaged- DEALS with me, cuz she knows im not going anywhere and he told her to get over it he loves me an thats final

so why in %RA^SGYASU &^&* would i have her go out with me & MY friends!!!!

Post # 6
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

ew I’d flip – sounds like something my Fiance would say! That’s why they make cots! The boys can suck it up or they can get their own room!

Post # 7
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Bee Keeper

@sizzi09:  Brother in the same room as the newlyweds? Escuse me?  I would definitely say something like you did! It would probably come out a whole lot clearer than yours though! LOL

Post # 8
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

I got mad at my brother because he said, “So, how many blowup beds are you planning to buy to host people for the wedding?” What now?! We have a hotel room block and I cannot host anyone for the wedding (logistically and for my emotional sanity). What made me upset was that he wasn’t asking if I was planning to host people, or offering to help, or anything, he just assumed I would be and acted like I was a bridezilla for not doing that.

And actually, I am hosting a family member who is coming into town a few days before everyone else, but once it gets closer to the wedding, everyone can stay in the nice, conveniently located and super cheap hotel rooms that we booked.

Post # 9
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

OMG wow. My Fiance didn’t even want our family at the same hotel as us. We’ll be at Port Orleans Riverside and they will all be over at All-Star movies.

Since we have an Escape wedding, we don’t have a minimum room requirement. If you are having trouble meeting yours, you should check out http://www.disboards.com/forumdisplay.php?f=55 the Dis Wedding and Honeymoon Forum. You can find people there who will be there at the same time as your wedding and get them to sign onto your room block and get credit for it. 

Post # 10
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

Hahaha!!!

We haven’t had too many of those moments, but my Fiance did mention that he plans on spending a LOT of time removing my garter. hahaha!! how embarrassing!!!!

Post # 11
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

Hahah wow that’s bad!  And hilarious!

My favorite moment was our misunderstanding around our honeymoon.  We want to go to Yosemite and I was thinking we’d stay at a hotel in/near Yosemite.  I thought this was obvious so I never mentioned it to my Fiance. Recently he mentioned CAMPING in Yosemite so I was like what?  Camping?  Turned out he wants to CAMP for our honeymoon.  No.  No no no no NO!  We will be staying in a hotel!

Post # 12
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

This is a great thread!

The other day Future Mother-In-Law told me.. “Guess what I’m going to have at your ceremony?

This kind of confused me because so-far I have planned everything for our entire wedding and have asked for no one elses input except for Fiance.  And we are keeping it that way.

So she continues to say.. “Well instead of having everyone throw rice during your exit I’m bringing birdseed!!”  

At this point I was a little upset, thinking… 1. Why does she think she is in charge of anything at our ceremony??  2. If she wants to throw bird seed at the rehearsal dinner she’s planning, then fine with me, but not at our ceremony where we are having a military sword arch for our exit.  3. Was she not going to tell me and just show up with this stuff on our wedding day?

I told her nicely “Oh, we are having the sword arch for our exit from the church.”

And she says, “Yes, I know.. but after that we will all be throwing bird seed.”

I quickly said no, that no one will be throwing anything and that Fiance and I only wanted the sword arch for our exit.

During the whole conversation I was just kind of thinking wtf?!   No thanks, I don’t feel like being pelted in the face with birdseed on my wedding day (I mentioned this to Fiance and he agreed).

I think what bothers me most is that she didn’t ask “Would it be ok if I brought birdseed for everyone to throw” NO, she said it so matter-of-factly like it’s her wedding and this is what she’s planning.  … ok end of vent! ๐Ÿ™‚

Post # 13
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

@Ms.GoodEarth:  Haha I just laughed at loud reading your post! Sounds like something my dad would say.

@CactusFlower:  What’s a military sword arch?

Post # 16
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

My wedding is a very vintage, antique wedding and we have been saving a lot of little vintage trinkets to lay at the tables with the centerpieces. I was explaining the vintage trinkets to my Future Mother-In-Law and the next day I get an email from her that says, “I found something ‘vintage” for you to deplay at the wedding- my old christening dress. I’m sure you can put it somewhere to hang around the ceremony” Uhhh…since when did trinkets turn into clothing? LOL…I just wrote back Thanks but no thanks, no clothing items will be displayed.

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