(Closed) omG I have 3 MOHs!! help :/

posted 8 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
32 posts

IMO I think it’s fantastic that you have three such close friends! If you are happy to have 3 MOH’s and if none of them have a problem with sharing the duties, then I think it should be fine, and hopefully less stress for you!


Post # 4
3068 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

I had a similiar problem, my two sister and my best friend and ALL were fighting to be Maid/Matron of Honor. So I made it simple, they are ALL bridesmaids. They are all equal. I just told them that each one of them is just as important t me as the other and that I want them ALL there with me through everything. They’re happy!

Post # 5
1104 posts
Bumble bee

I didn’t designate anyone Maid/Matron of Honor either, I had 2 sisters and there was no way. I tried to split the duties up evenly so they each got enough attention and “honour” 🙂 In my mind it would be better to have 1 Maid/Matron of Honor and 3 BMs, or just 4 BMs – I think there is potential for the single Bridesmaid or Best Man to feel really singled out as the least important person (not saying that’s the case, just that it would be easy to see why she might feel that way).

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