(Closed) OMG I just found out ex is married!!

posted 9 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Bumble bee

I actually just found out not long ago (via FB) that my ex was not only married, but is now divorced!  It was a double-shock!

We did not keep in touch or have mutual friends though so it’s easy to understand why I didn’t hear about it.  Interesting though that you have mutual friends who didn’t mention it….they were probably just trying to protect your feelings!

Post # 4
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2018 - Holy Family Catholic Church, reception: National Infantry Museum

My ex got married and even though I was already with Mr. CC it still kinda bothered me! 

Post # 5
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 2010

Oh I totally had this shock when my ex got engaged!

It’s a weird feeling! I think I was just jealous that he got engaged first which is still a feeling a shouldn’t have and I was confused about!

Post # 6
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Sugar bee

I would be a little shocked too especially if they were a long time ex-boyfriend.  That being said, dont focus on it, enjoy your upcoming wedding and being married 🙂  I agree with Lorienne about your friends, they probably didnt want to upset you or maybe they thought you didnt want to hear about it.

Post # 7
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2009

I worked at a bridal registry and that is where I found out my ex was getting married! He came in with his Fiance to add some stuff. It was a little weird especially since she was the reason we broke up….

Post # 8
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Bumble bee

OUCH, sweetkate!  That must have been rough….. HUGS!

Post # 9
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 1969

Sweetkate, OMG.

Post # 11
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2018

I found out my ex was married by running into them with my new husband. It was the most awkward night ever…

 

Sorry that you had to find out in a weird way. It’s hard, no matter how long it’s been or how you felt when you broke up.

Post # 13
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2009 - City Hall

Oh man. Mr. MJ’s ex found out via a registry ad on facebook. Talk about awkward. I just told my Ex today so there’ll be no nasty or hurtful facebook discoveries on that end.

Post # 14
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2009

Thanks lorienne! I do have to say though, its funny how things work out. I don’t think I would have moved out of my parents house when I did if it wasn’t for him. And if I hadn’t moved I would never have met my FI!

*Side note- I didn’t move for the guy, it just happened that a friend had just moved to the city and was looking for a roommate. I didn’t move because of a guy, he was just a perk!

Post # 16
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2010

@ sweetkate:  ouch,… thats just bad form!

i only have the one ex Boyfriend or Best Friend and a few years ago i was at the grocery store and there he was with a baby – seems the female friend of his that i had issues with and he got together the day we broke up and said baby was the result

fast forward a few more years and (at the same shopping centre mind you!) i walk to my car and there is a white car parked next to mine with a banshee mum in the car screaming at the 3 girls inside who are screaming and then the ex walks up to the car and kinda starts yelling about all the screaming – seems they had twins since the first baby

he looked at me (i had lost 100lbs by then), i looked at him, i got into my new Audi (company car mind you so dont get too excited for me) and drove off. ive since heard that he lost his job (he lied about his medical condition), lost the house and they have divorced which is sad but i dont care enough to lose sleep over it

 

 

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