(Closed) OMG It’s so close! I’m freaking out!

posted 7 years ago in December 2011
Post # 3
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566 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

I’m right there with you. I freak out a little bit every day. It’s like OMG it’s almost here!!! I’ll just be minding my own business then BAM a wedding thought floats through my head, then I count how many months left and then I have a minor panic attack. Sigh.

Post # 5
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5110 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: November 2011

OH be confident that everything will work out. We all have those moments that we freak out a little bit but in the end we all work really hard, and everything will get done. Delegate to some of your friends, family, or bridal party that are willing to help you with your wedding projects. 🙂 Good luck!!

Post # 6
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1061 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 2011

I keep working through my “to-do” lists and I still have twinges of OMG, but they are currently at bay.

One thing my Mom said to me that helped was, “Sarah, only you know alllll the projects you wanted to do and exactly how it is all supposed to look.  As long as you are married at the end of the day and the guests have food in their belly and a drink in their hand, they won’t know know any different!”

Post # 7
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1575 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

You are going to drive yourself insane if you are already freaking out over 4 months before the wedding. Take it one step at a time, do you best and try to relax and have fun!

Post # 8
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794 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 2011

OMG I know exactly how you feel.  I had a meltdown yesterday when I was updating the registry and it was throwing it in my face there were only 129 days left.  I have SO much DIY to do it’s not even funny.  My problem is I keep adding new projects.  I really just need to stop looking at new ideas!!

Post # 9
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2580 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

I know how you feel! Everyone is like, 4 months is such a long time, but time is flying. I just try to take things one step at a time, and I rely on the Wedding Wire checklist to tell me when I need to get stuff done. That’s helped me break it down into more manageable steps instead of just feeling like I’ll never get it all done!

@SarahSmilesDec28: I agree with what your mom said completely! I think that’s great advice. I always drool over DIY stuff online, but I’ve tried to think about it as a guest when I attend weddings now. A lot of it is adorable, but it certainly doesn’t make or break my wedding experience. People want to celebrate with you and have fun, no one will be disappointed there were no tissue paper pom napkin rings or yay flags. If it’s stressing you out more than you’re going to enjoy it, I think it’s okay to let some projects go.

Post # 10
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

It’s okay that’s what I love about the bee hive. You have people who freak out with you and can calm you down =).

I totally agree that the next 4 months are going to fly by. Heck the first 7 months of this year flew by with a blink of an eye! Okay..sorry, that probably doesn’t help. lol

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