(Closed) OMG My Wedding in trouble

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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2281 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

What you’ve written is kind of jumbled, but it looks like she took your money and then bailed? That’s illegal. Call a lawyer.

Post # 4
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4431 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

@laura.rioscardona:  I’m not really sure where to start with this…but if you have records of all of your deposits, and she has a company..why don’t you call the company and handle everything and bring up a law suit if the money is not returned or she does not perform to your liking?

If you have a contract, which I would hope you do…then you should be safe..also I would hope you paid her by check…this would make it easier for your case as well.

If in the agreement you have that she would be present throughout the whole event to coordinate, then she would be in violation of that contract and therefore I would file a suit.  If not, then you’re pretty much screwed.

Post # 5
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9482 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2012

@ProfessorGirl:  Agreed.

Did you cancel?  Did she take the money and run?  Did she cancel?  I’m confused, but I’m hoping you signed a contract.  If so, call a lawyer ASAP.

Post # 6
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8738 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2011

I’m not 100% sure what happened.

What are you paying her to do?

Do you have a contract with her?

What does the contract say?

Why did you cancel the venue/wedding?

Post # 7
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13251 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

I agree, I’m kind of confused about what happened, but if she took your money and didn’t do the work she was contracted for, that’s illegal and she can be sued…

Post # 8
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7649 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2012

I interrpreted this a whole different way than the others: From what I gather she is still doing your wedding, but has another one the same night and will have to skip out after she is done setting up yours to go help with the other? And you feel since you paid her a deposit she should be at your event only?

That’s what I gathered from all the confusing mess. However, I don’t think you can ask for your money back if that’s the case. Depending on what your contract is, if she is obligated to be there the whole night, then she must. If not, then she will do what she is asked (decorate, attend ceremony, whatever) and then she can leave. You can hire a different person, but if your orignal coordinator shows up, then you must pay her. If she doesn’t show, at least you have a backup and you can rightfully ask your original coordinator for your money back.

If at this point she has completely run out on you and isn’t doing anything, then you are entitled to get your money back for the work she didn’t do.

By the way, wtf if you seriously cancelled or are thinking about cancelling your venue because you THINK that your coordinator won’t show up anyway, that is ridiculous and she wouldn’t have to compensate you for any of that. You would still owe her for work that she has already done because it isn’t her fault you cancelled your venue.

Post # 9
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

From what I can tell, OP needs to learn how to use punctuation.

I am sorry, but it’s a giant run-on sentence. That will get you kicked off of a lot of other message boards.

Post # 10
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

@rosworms:  It’s her first post, give her some slack! 

 

I would suggest, original poster… that you read your post before you create the thread.  Also, there is a helpfull thread for newbees that can help you have a better outcome in getting the answer you’re looking for.

 

Post # 11
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9482 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2012

@rosworms:  Could’ve been using her phone which does create a problem sometimes, but I understand what you’re saying.

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