(Closed) Omg… Omg… I’m a pervert :(

posted 6 years ago in Intimacy
Post # 3
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2011

Whatever floats your boat! I’ve never heard of creampie before but I think I got the jist. does your partner know this? You should tell him what you love and how it turns you on!

Post # 4
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2012

@QuestionMark:  There is nothing wrong with you.  I share the same feelings as you regarding cum.  It makes me extremely excited and helps me get off.  =)  I realized this more recently in our relationship.  I was sort of “shy” when we first started dating.  Seems like the “whore” in me comes out more and more as our relationship progresses.

Post # 5
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Bumble Beekeeper

Bahaha!  The title of this post and your tone are both hilarious.  I’ve never had the urge to participate in this, but we’ve all done some kinky sh!t in our lives.  Talk to your Fiance about it and see if he’s willing to try it.  If not, I’m sure you two can incorporate your love of cum into other, different activities.  Try to relax and not to feel so badly!  I do/have done things in private that I can’t even talk about on the ‘bee. πŸ™‚

Post # 7
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2012

@QuestionMark:  “Rape his booty”.  I’m sorry I had to giggle.

I’m sorry your Fiance isn’t open to much of what you’re interested in.  He should at least listen.

Post # 8
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2016

Why don’t you just show him? I’m sure there is a porn vid somewhere with what you want.  Btw   Don’t be ashamed.  You’re  fine!

Post # 10
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Sugar bee

LOL. A lot of men don’t like their women going back there!

You aren’t weird. Not in the least!

Post # 11
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2011

Its also a saturday evening, so we are not full on with all our members. If you bump this say monday mid morning you will get a ton of advice!
I second showing him a video of what your talking about πŸ˜‰ 

Post # 12
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: January 1992

@Eva Peron:  Haha, shows how dedicated most bees are to their jobs, eh? πŸ˜‰

Speaking of jobs, OP, maybe if you gave your S/O small little tasks distantly related to your ultimate goal, maybe you could work up to the full blown experience you are looking for? Let him get desensitized to something that might ordinarily raise his eyebrow. Once he sees that he likes new things, he might be more apt to try stuff?

Post # 13
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

You are not weird and there really isn’t anything wrong with being a perv.  I’m a perv too.  While I don’t seek out this situation, I have been in it.  There have been plenty of times my Fiance has done me, finished inside me and then gone down on me within a few minutes.  The first time he did it I shocked, but I ended up liking it. He even talks about doing it sometimes. πŸ™‚

Post # 14
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

The concept does not float my boat- but we are all different!

If this is what you want then show him- if you cannot tell him πŸ™‚

Post # 15
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

My fiancé has done it to me. Like MrsKennedytoBe, I was surprised the first time he did it. He’s a big perv though, so I probably shouldn’t have been. He doesn’t do it that often, but he talks about doing it a lot.

Post # 16
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

OP, you’re not a perv and you’re kind of hilarious. There’s nothing wrong with getting excited by cum, I guess it would be worse if you were grossed out by it! 

I’m sorry your Fiance doesn’t seem to understand and I agree with PPs that maybe you could take smaller steps to see how far he’d be willing to go? Do you already watch porn together? If so, maybe you could try finding some with “normal” looking people doing the things you like? It’s really easy to dismiss ideas when there’s some super-stereotype “pornstars” on the screen. Maybe you’re Fiance would get that being a bit kinky is nothing to be ashamed about. 

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