(Closed) Omg..is she an MOH-zilla? Should I be mad??

posted 10 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
457 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

I think the shoes aren’t really the problem…it’s the fact that she went behind your back, and that hurts. Sit her down and talk to her. Perhaps she feels jealous of this experience, or maybe she just feels overwhelmed. She may not have realized how important the job is! But really, black shoes will be ok. Lots of love!

Post # 4
5889 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2012

honestly, even if the girls say they are ok with all getting the same shoes, i would reiterate to them that it isn’t necessary.  or, you could play dumb and send out an email to everyone saying that they can pick whatever shoes they like in silver.  =)

Post # 6
4544 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

I don’t think the shoes are a big deal but I do think it’s odd that she’d make that decision without even letting you know! I’d suggest talking to her.

Post # 7
272 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

I think she’s trying to be too controlling and do too much or something. She should be so bossy and make decisions like that without talking to you.

Post # 8
1701 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

It sounds to me like she is really jealous.  YOU are the bride.  If you want to issue an edict about shoes, that is your call.  She is being really rude and inconsiderate.  I would avoid talking to her as much as possible.  A lttle space might be a good thing.  My sister Maid/Matron of Honor is giving me a hard time as well.  I have pretty much decided not to communicate with her until we both get into town for the wedding.  I have enough going on–I don’t need her snarkiness right now.

BTW–my wedding is also 10/9 and my Bridesmaid or Best Man dresses are eggplant.  I issued a shoe edict–black dress shoes.  The dresses are long and no one will really see anyone’s shoes.  I would have preferred silver but didn’t want to put people through the expense of new shoes.

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