(Closed) On average, what percentage of invited guests reply “no” to wedding invitations?

posted 8 years ago in Logistics
Post # 3
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

I would LOVE to know the answer to this question, too!

Post # 4
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

I’ve heard to assume about 20% will rsvp No…. maybe more if it’s out of town for a lot of guests.

Post # 5
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

I think 80% is the rule of thumb but it depends on where your wedding is and how many people have to travel.  We went through and did a liklihood of attending percentage for each guest to try to be more accurate than just applying a blanket 80% and we are estimating 70% yield.  But ours is in Charleston and our families and friends are spread throughout the US so it will be a flight for most.

Post # 6
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

btw – the 80% rule is for Yes responses 🙂

Post # 7
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: March 2010 - Ritz-Carlton, Half Moon Bay

i’ve heard around the 75-85% range as well, although of course it depends on how many people are coming from out of town, how remote the location is, etc. this was such a huge question for me too! right now we’re looking at about a 75% yes rate.

Post # 8
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

i have been wondering about this too! anyone know what the percentage tends to be for a wedding with 99% Out of Town guests?

Post # 9
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2010

For ours, about 20% declined 🙂

Post # 10
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: April 2010

I would think the time of year, day of the week, etc. plays a big part too. Also, the amount of guests you invite (closeness of everyone). We only invited 68 (hoping for 55-60) but they could all very well come since we are close to all. I think that matters as well. But I’ve heard anywhere from 10-30% for most weddings.

Post # 11
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Honey Beekeeper

According to our wedding specialist at our reception venue, the industry standard is that 20% of invited guests will RSVP “No.” Of course, that is an average, so you can’t count on it, but it is a good approximation. So if you don’t invite more than 120 people, you are pretty safe I think.

In terms of your other question about invites, invitations usually go out 6-8 weeks prior to the wedding. You could send family out first and wait for some responses before sending out the “b list”, but there may have to be some overlap. And by that, I mean that you probably wouldn’t be able to get all your family invites back before sending out your “b list” invites…that would require family to rsvp a little too early.

I hope this helps a little!

Post # 12
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

I like your idea of staggering invitations so that you can be sure that you don’t go over the 100 person max.  We have invited 120 ppl to our wedding thinking that we would end up with no more than 100 “yes” responses in the end (it’s Out of Town for mostly everyone — but a pleasant 5-hour drive up the Maine coast).  Well… we haven’t sent out invites yet, but from talking to people, it looks like we will probably end up with more than 100 guests in the end.  So the lesson is, 80% might be the rule of thumb, but you never know. 

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Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2010

we thought a lot more would say yes, but it is a drive for most people (2+ hours) and not a location that Out of Town want to hang out for an extended stay. on that note, we’re looking at about 70% acceptance, maybe less!

Post # 14
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 2010

We have half our list coming from out of town and had about 25% decline: Invited 210 and 156 are coming.  We wanted to keep it right around 150 so we were happy the “rule” of around 80% will come proved correct.

Post # 15
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2010

I think the earliest you could send out invites to family as an A list would be 10 weeks, with the due date at maybe 6 weeks before the wedding.  Then you could send out the B list invites as soon as the no’s trickle in, with a due date of whenever your caterer needs final head count by.

Post # 16
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: April 2010

I’ve been told by a few brides that all of your “yes” replys will come in long before your “no”s. So far this is holding tru for us. 207 people invited 110 replys…only 2 “no”s.

We had originally thought of doing a B List. Now I see that it wouldn’t have worked for us.

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