Post # 1
This year has been a roller coaster of emotions for me. My lovely bf has implied multiple times that we’d be getting engaged this year but so far, no action. Absolutely nothing is holding him back as far as age, finances, etc. so I’ve had a lot of confused/hurt feelings over what’s taking so long. The ONLY thing keeping me sane was thinking, maybe he’s waiting for a specific date. Well the only date I could think of is our dating anniversary, which is next month. Now the closer I get to that date the less I’m able to hold on to my chill pill. I keep wondering what will happen if it doesn’t happen? Telling myself it’ll probably happen on that date is my only coping skill left!
I’m scared I’ll have a full on emotional melt down if it doesn’t happen by then. Anybody else going through the same thing?
Post # 3
@EmmyGirl: OMG yes.
My proposal is coming by March, and some days I’m ready to check into the loony bin. I’m pretty sure it’s not happening before December so I really need to chill out. But I CAN’T stop thinking about it, especially since my office building is next to a bunch of jewelry stores, and I keep getting ads from wedding-related companies because of WB…
Good luck, I have no advice. Let’s just be excited that it’s coming soooooon :):) I hope your’s comes sooner than later! At least you know it’s this year, unless he’s evil 😛 And this year is half-over!
Post # 4
@arathella: Stay strong! I know it’s tough to walk past the sparklies all the time. I’m always oogling other women’s rings lately.
I’m doing my best to keep my mind off of it but somehow that always involves shopping and it’s getting expensive! LOL. My wardrobe, my hair, and my nails are in tip top shape lately due to some retail/makeover therapy.