- 3 years ago
- Wedding: July 2017
Going to a strip club is ok. Going to a strip club and getting a lap dance is arguably ok too. Feeling up someone’s boobs and accepting invitation to sex – definitely not ok. I don’t know your situation, and you mentioned that you have kids, so I will not say that you need to immediately divorce the guy, but I do think that he is a coward and a pig. I would consider this cheating. You deserve respect, regardless of what your relationship with him is like. He went to a strip club behind your back and had his hands all over another woman, while his wife was home with his baby – what kind of husband and father does that? To me it wouldn’t matter if an act of sex actually happened, in his mind he already cheated. It’s ok to fantasize about another woman, but when there’s even a slight chance of something happening in a real life, it’s not so innocent anymore.