On the topic of SO going to strip club

posted 3 years ago in Emotional
Post # 106
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  • Wedding: July 2017

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Going to a strip club is ok. Going to a strip club and getting a lap dance is arguably ok too. Feeling up someone’s boobs and accepting invitation to sex – definitely not ok. I don’t know your situation, and you mentioned that you have kids, so I will not say that you need to immediately divorce the guy, but I do think that he is a coward and a pig. I would consider this cheating. You deserve respect, regardless of what your relationship with him is like. He went to a strip club behind your back and had his hands all over another woman, while his wife was home with his baby – what kind of husband and father does that? To me it wouldn’t matter if an act of sex actually happened, in his mind he already cheated. It’s ok to fantasize about another woman, but when there’s even a slight chance of something happening in a real life, it’s not so innocent anymore.

Post # 107
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Blushing bee

I honestly think he cheated.  I would pack my stuff and your baby’s stuff and leave.  You deserve better.  In a million years, I would not forgive cheating. Cut your losses, file for divorce, and find someone who lcan he’s and respects you lol ke you deserve.

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