(Closed) One and Only.

posted 6 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
16213 posts
Honey Beekeeper

There’s absolutely nothing “wrong” with only having been with your SO. The only way it could be a problem is if you have serious concerns about whether you “missed out” on other experiences. I have a few friends who married their first boyfriend and are still totally happy and in love years later.

Dating other people can definitely teach you things about yourself and what you want, but some people just get lucky on the first try!

However, you don’t want to go through more and more time with him if you are really worried about what else is out there. That’s not fair to either of you.

Post # 4
98 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

I’ve been with my partner since I was 18 and we were each other’s firsts (and onlies). I couldn’t be happier with him, but sometimes I do wonder what it would be like to sleep with someone else. I’m really ONLY curious about sex–I kind of missed my chance to experiment in college. Our sex life is comfortable, but not mind-blowing, so sometimes I wonder if it would be “better” with someone else. But it’s not worth giving this up to find out.


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