(Closed) one BM is getting more and more unbearable :(

posted 7 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: March 2012

She sounds really mean…and selfish….and prob someone that i would think about replacing. btw im praying that your court case goes well…a daughter belongs with her mother no matter what!

Post # 4
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

@MrsNeutrino: ((((HUGS)))) so so sorry you’re dealing with all this!  I have no words of wisdom, but I do hope everything goes well and goes in your favor wednesday and I hope your friend cools off and realizes that you need a friend more than anything right now.  

again, so sorry you’re dealing with all this. 

Post # 5
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

Honestly, speaking only from experience, friends don’t ALWAYS get along.

In the begining of my wedding planning, the first person I told was my bestfriend. I asked her to be my Maid/Matron of Honor. Long story short, she started doing the same sort of things your Bridesmaid or Best Man is doing.

And instead of me talking to her about it (like a true friend should do) I just got super p/o’d one day and told her I didn’t want her in my wedding! If I wasn’t planning a wedding, I probably would have been just real with her and told her how I was feeling. (We have now cleared everything up, starting to get closer again)

So my suggestion is to just talk to her and tell her straight up how you feel and how you need your friend that day.

By The Way good luck with court

Post # 7
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

@MrsNeutrino: you’re most welcome πŸ™‚  

wait until AFTER the court hearing (fingers crossed for you!!!!) and wait until you’re calmer.  You have so much stressful stuff going on, you need a break.  If it were me, I’d have blown my top at her already!  (Of course, I’d also be calling my Fiance up and begging him to come rescue me, at least for a day… is that possible for you?)

good luck!  and I’m so so sorry you’re going through all this. lots of hugs and good vibes sent your way!

Post # 9
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

@MrsNeutrino: ugh, that really sucks, but at least he gets to be there the day of!  πŸ™  good luck!!!!  

Post # 11
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

you’re not over reacting — she’s rude & sounds passive aggressive.

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