(Closed) One last MOM vent (I hope it’s the last!?) before the wedding!

posted 7 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
6892 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: March 2012

That’s just horrible. I *would* tell her that the closest hotel may have smoking rooms, lol.

Post # 4
4014 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

Hell. Just to end my suffering of her ranting on and on about something so ridiculous, I would totally bring up the hotel suggestions. But thats just me. lol. I used to smoke but I was like you and only did it outside and around others who were ok with it. Is is really that difficult to go outside?! AHHHH sorry I feel your pain, but you honestly dont need the stress so close to your big day! Hope it works out!

Post # 6
5118 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

@MsInterpret: *deep, calming breaths* It’s almost here!! 🙂 Yay! I’m sorry your ma is being such a source of stress, especially over such little things. Maybe this would be a good time for your phone to ‘break.’ If she keeps on about reducing stress, tell her she best go reduce hers by having a smoke since she won’t be doing it indoors. *And I’m excited to go to Iowa this week for spring break, so you can tell her for some it’s a tropical destination and she’ll survive ;-)* 

Post # 7
153 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

Sorry you have to deal with this. Me personally, I would tell my own mother not to attend the wedding if she can’t step outside to smoke. That is incredibly rude and selfish of her. Not to mention it’s unfair to all of your other guests!

Post # 8
464 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

Personally I would be stressing too, but as an oberver, I would tell her to deal!! My mom, sister, dad, Fiance and I smoke, and we know we cant even smoke on the property!! its a golf course in the middle of summer and they worry about fires. They all are dealing. If her one problem is cold I would see about getting her or borrowing an outside heater just to shut her up. We have one at the bar I sometimes go to and it helps alot. (thats only if you want to fix it, but you dont have to… she can DEAL!!)

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